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david479ParticipantNovember 19, 2013 at 8:05 am #43051
Hi, I’m talking to a woman and I need your help. Well nearly a week later she texted back saying that she’s going through a hard time where she doesn’t want to talk to anyone and she apologized. I said that I understand and that it’s ok. Then I called her and we talked for a while. Through out the conversation I mentioned I was Downtown hanging out with a friend and she asked what’s going on DT. She then said she wanted to come but didn’t want to come alone, she said she was waiting on her friend and that she might come. She ended not coming. I called her the next day around 7 pm but got no answer. The next day – yesterday I called her twice and no answer, I texted her too and no answer. What do you think i should do now? Thanks
George ReaganParticipantNovember 27, 2013 at 12:46 pm #43654
I agree with jrmmp87. Three strikes and you are out. Find someone who wants to be with you.
AnonymousNovember 28, 2013 at 7:40 am #43671
move on with positive think….
newstart12ParticipantNovember 28, 2013 at 3:56 pm #43676
Everyone always worries about this ( understandably ) BUT considering we are ALL on the other end of that cell phone feeling the same way, just do it. She will be happy you did.
This is an older post but I hope it worked out out for you!
tritonParticipantNovember 29, 2013 at 11:35 am #43680
Id suggest leaving it and hope she responds. Im practically in a similar situation and that’s what I received.
Tacoma123ParticipantNovember 30, 2013 at 9:25 am #43699
She isnt interested, if she was she would have met you, move on.
smilez2207ParticipantDecember 3, 2013 at 6:03 am #43758
You should definitely move on. She is obviously playing games and wasting your time. You deserve better
FashionBeautyLoverParticipantDecember 3, 2013 at 1:26 pm #43811
I agree with everyone just move on!!
johnx2ParticipantDecember 3, 2013 at 7:50 pm #43867
Dont call her again. Your making it seem to her like you may be agressive and desperate.
kmarksParticipantDecember 4, 2013 at 1:19 am #43870
don’t think too much. It’s nature of girls
erikmayParticipantDecember 17, 2013 at 8:32 am #44688
Wow, does that sound familiar. I run into those issues a lot, but I just figured it was my own lack of confidence or bad karma. I have been trying to learn a little about being better with women and I know one thing I have been doing wrong is acting desperate. You are doing the same thing I have done in the past and it makes me wonder if she might find your calls a little annoying.
If you are interested, you might want to wait a couple weeks before you try again, and then do it from a different phone. It sounds like she is ignoring your number.
JohnPenningtonParticipantDecember 19, 2013 at 10:02 pm #44990
i know nobody wants to hear “move on.” her not answering you isnt a good sign, but her not showing up doesnt necessarily mean shes not interested. a girl at my job who liked me didnt come out when we went to the bar one night and she knew i was going so her not going doesnt necessarily mean shes not interested.
RatisseParticipantDecember 20, 2013 at 4:30 pm #45057
Agreed with the above. Go out and start meeting new people. There is no need to get caught up on one girl when there are billions of them in the world. As for shyness. Work on your social skills. It can seem tedious and uncomfortable but if you want to improve you have to break through your comfort zone. That’s what I really started doing 6 years ago and I can honestly say that pushing through and evolving oneself is so worth it.
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