What should I do, should I risk possibly breaking his heart?

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What should I do, should I risk possibly breaking his heart?

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    MysticalM24
    MysticalM24
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    June 8, 2015 at 3:25 am #80381
    What should I do, should I risk possibly breaking his heart?

    Awhile back I met this guy, we had so much in common that we became best friends and eventually he asked me out, unfortunately he had to move back to Ohio to be with his parents because of their failing health, I live in Florida.

    Lately I feel like we’ve grown apart, he makes too many dirty jokes that I don’t find at all funny, he posts stuff on his Facebook wall that is sexist, and I don’t feel like I love him any more. He has cybered with another girl online which people tell me isn’t cheating because he never actually physically had sex with her, but it still upset me.

    He’s always telling me that I’m the reason he’s still alive, that he still has hope, that I renewed his faith in God, and talks about getting married and having kids. When I tried to tell him I wanted to slow down because I wasn’t ready for marriage he actually started to cry and thought I was breaking up with him when I wasn’t. I’m afraid that if I do actually break up with him he might hurt/kill himself.


    taliakay
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    June 13, 2015 at 10:31 pm #80849

    I think it’s best to get him some kind of professional help if you think he is headed in such a direction. I mean if you don’t like the guy as much and is still not ready for marriage then you shouldn’t do it just because you feel like he might hurt himself if you don’t. Marriage is not something that should be taken lightly and something you shouldn’t jump into if you’re not ready anyways.