What should I have said?

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What should I have said?

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  • Pacmac
    Participant
    April 27, 2017 at 3:13 pm #134667
    What should I have said?

    So a girl I’ve been friends with for a while were out on something like a date. She says “This is why we are such good friends.” I say “I don’t consider you a friend.” She says “Then what am I?”

    I froze and didn’t say anything. What should I have said that would have conveyed I think of her as more than a friend?


    bellemelodieux
    Participant
    April 28, 2017 at 3:05 am #134727

    if you were on a date and you like her, yeah, you probably should have conveyed that you like her as more than a friend. she probably wanted to hear that. probably still does.


    strudelsnatcher
    Participant
    May 1, 2017 at 8:51 am #134947

    Did she seem to realize you were on a date? It’s possible she just thought this was a sort of outing between two good friends. On the other hand, it’s possible she wanted you to make a move and take the next step in your relationship.


    charger
    Participant
    May 2, 2017 at 1:30 am #135081

    Women want to know you’re a friend too, for them to put you in the friend category isn’t all bad. It gives them time to figures out if you’re worth taking to the next level. Also, it shows them if your just a dog trying to get some.

    Don’t be too aggressive here. Tell her she’s a great friend and how much you enjoy her company, in fact so much “you have often thought we could easily be more than friends” what do you think?”


    erick23n
    Participant
    May 2, 2017 at 12:27 pm #135147

    Not sure kind of a touch one