What should my next step be?


What should my next step be?

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    July 15, 2015 at 7:52 am #82807
    What should my next step be?

    I meet someone 6 weeks ago online. We really hit it off. Our kids have meet and they get along. I meet his parents not intentionally though it just happened. I was at his place visiting and she came over. She was really nice and made me feel welcome. We have went out quite a few times. He texts me every morning and all throughout the day. We have made small comments about feelings and he told me he is never sure of exactly how he feels but that he really enjoys my company. If he is interested in me like he makes me feel then why is he still getting on the dating site? I stayed off mine for the longest time because I didn’t have a reason to get back on there. I was happy with who I meet. I have not let my feeling get invested yet so I can still walk away if I need to. Should I ignore the fact that he keeps getting online and see where this goes or should I confront him? I really like him and I don’t want to rush anything but I also hate wasting my time.

    July 15, 2015 at 9:24 am #82821


    It’s good that your kids and and they get along. I think six weeks is a bit too short of a time to really determine anything. Its not like you guys are getting married or in anything serious. Give it a few more weeks, and if this persists, then have a talk with him about it and and if still is unsure how he feels about you by then, then it may be time to move on. Hope this helps.

    July 15, 2015 at 9:44 am #82828

    Yes it confirms what I know I should do though I would rather just know what is going on. My patience is definitely being tested and I don’t have much in this area anymore. I just hope I’m not wasting my time like I have with other guys for the past 3 years.

    July 15, 2015 at 12:19 pm #82844

    The best thigh to do is talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and put the ball in his corner

    July 24, 2015 at 3:36 pm #83211

    I just came across this and wondered what, if anything, you ended up doing. I always think open communication is the best policy.