What the actual hell?

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What the actual hell?

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    RedSunshine
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    July 23, 2014 at 6:39 am #58024
    What the actual hell?

    Long story short,
    I have been in a relationship of 5 years which has ended recently, it was my call, no worries there, he is still yet to move out though (so annoying and I’m hurrying him along)
    Well, Another guy who I’ve known for coming up to 10 years and have always had chemistry and a flirty relationship with, we’ve never actually got together for distance reasons etc… Has also split with his partner of a few years (very good coincidence really)
    We have become quite close in the past couple weeks and actually slept together recently but now he seems slightly distanced. Just curious to see what people’s thoughts are? I really like him and always have and he has always liked me, He has sent flowers in the past and taken me away. Timings just never been on our side till now…. And now I’m worried we’ve just rushed it all too soon.

    runtothesun
    runtothesun
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    July 23, 2014 at 7:06 am #58025

    I honestly think you might’ve rushed it and he freaked out, I know I’ve definitely been in his shoes before and it’s not pleasant. Give him some space, then try talking to him about it. If he avoids it, well, there’s your answer unfortunately


    RedSunshine
    Participant
    July 23, 2014 at 7:16 am #58027

    Mega annoyed considering it’s been something brewing for going on a decade and in one stupid night it could all be ruined. Do guys like someone that says look I understand if it was too quick or whatever?Obviously I’ll leave him be for a week or so.


    Anonymous
    July 23, 2014 at 8:27 am #58033

    If youb really like her then just say her clearly and thought about that what people thought about her and you.


    RedSunshine
    Participant
    July 23, 2014 at 8:36 am #58028

    Mega annoyed considering it’s been something brewing for going on a decade and in one stupid night it could all be ruined. Do guys like someone that says look I understand if it was too quick or whatever? Obviously I’ll leave him be for a week or so.

    Justme2014
    Justme2014
    Participant
    July 24, 2014 at 9:39 am #58111

    Perhaps he felt he rushed into this relationship and is now just taking it slow. Do not fret. I believe he is just a little standoffish so that he can assess the situation more clearly. I would not stress too much. Stressing out just makes everything worse.