What to do?!?!


What to do?!?!

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    June 5, 2016 at 10:40 pm #102201
    What to do?!?!

    There is this guy I ended up dating for a short period of time and I can’t seem to get over my feelings for him. A little background, he’s bisexual and has never dated a guy before and has only ever dated one girl his whole life (he’s 19 and I’m 23 and I think he’s a virgin as well). We were really good friends before we started dating and when he came out to me, things started getting serious between us. Anyway, his reasons for breaking things off were, he’s scared about dating a guy, he feels busy with college and doesn’t want to make a romantic relationship a priority and doesn’t know when or if he’ll ever be ready, as well as not comfortable coming out to his parents/dating without his parents knowing it’s a guy. He tells me that he does like me and we trust each other. I’ve been refraining from talking to him because he knows I’m upset and he’s apologized, but I can’t seem to move on easily. Should I try to continue being friends? I still like him.

    P.S. He’s my coworker :-/

    June 18, 2016 at 6:59 pm #103596

    You’re coworkers so you’d be needing to be cordial with him no matter what. I suggest though that you go find a man who’ll get your love life going; you possibly would not want to “wait” forever for him to be ready – he already broke up with you. You deserve better.