What to do with this guy I met online an year ago?

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What to do with this guy I met online an year ago?

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    fireys
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    December 2, 2017 at 7:24 pm #158358
    What to do with this guy I met online an year ago?

    Met on a dating site, went on a date (best date ever, connected so well, he said that first), he goes off to another continent, while I have no idea if there is gonna be a second date. Intermittent texting. See each other for 3-4 weeks after ~3 months. Off again. Intermittent texting. Meet once. Off again. Intermittent texting. Had some fights because I don’t like not getting a reply for days while you are sitting online. Intermittent texting. He has gone back to the “saw your message, but won’t reply” phase. He is looking for a job here, has told me tentative dates of his interviews, but doesn’t give any clarity on when he is moving back & I avoid asking. Is he still interested?

    I try not to ask intrusive questions. I had asked him if he wanted to be exclusive, but he said “I like you, but I live there, and I don’t have a job here yet”. We continued seeing each other after that.

    IS he still interested? I am still dating other men, but it is hard to connect as well as I did with him.