What was her motive?

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What was her motive?

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    John93-02
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    August 27, 2017 at 9:17 pm #147161
    What was her motive?

    Ok, so i started a new job about a year ago. Met this girl and instantly fell in love. I can not even explain how it happened or how it felt. Found out she had a boyfriend which sucked. I kind of moved on, dated this one girl for a month and talked to a few others. But all i could think about was her. Then about 8 months after stating that job she started messaging me. Messaged more and more everyday, then i found out she broke up with her boyfriend. Exchanged numbers, then we would message all day at work and text until we told each other goodnight. That lasted 2 months everyday. During this time she was always weird about hanging outside of work. Now if you text someone that much and talk to each other for about 15 hours straight everyday dont you think that would mean we were “talking” and that she would want to maybe go on a date or even just hang out? we got in a fight about what we wanted and we haven’t talked in a month. She didn’t tell me why though and got defensive.

    Richy Rich
    Richy Rich
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    August 30, 2017 at 3:59 pm #147629

    May be she was using you to get attention as she was going through a bad patch with her boyfriend. Using you as back up. Lesson learnt here – NEVER text someone all day for weeks on end, as it often ends up in burn out. As is the case here.