What would you do?

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What would you do?

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    Kira
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    January 4, 2016 at 10:11 pm #90987
    What would you do?

    I just started dating this guy a month ago, but after the first week or two it didn’t feel right. Now I’ve realized that I don’t feel like much of a girlfriend anymore, more of an okay friend, and that concerns me because it’s the beginning of the relationship. He’s a nice guy, but I don’t feel like he thinks of me as someone special most of the time. I won’t be able to see him for a week but I told him we needed to talk about this matter because it’s bugging me too much and he agreed. The next day we texted normally for the evening (I texted 1st) but it’s been 3 days now and he hasn’t texted me at all. I’m tired of initiating conversations most of the time, but I want to know if he’s mad, sad, needs space, or what because it makes me want to stay with him less if this is how he’s handling the matter. Am I over thinking things? Should I just text him first and ask or will it most likely make things worse before we see each other and sit down to talk about this all?