What's going on.


What's going on.

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    October 11, 2014 at 1:57 am #65702
    What's going on.

    There is a girl I have known for well over a year. Several months ago we started flirting a little bit mostly just being playful. I asked her out on two occasions, she never gave me an answer so I assumed she was not interested so I gave up. A friend of ours insisted I try asking her out to a movie, I did and she agreed. We saw the movie together with very little conversation before or after, she seemed a little rushed about the whole thing. I again took this as a bad sign so I figured nothing more would come of it. A month ago I decided to tell her how I felt about her, her response was that she kind of avoids stuff like that. Since then we have been talking more, and today we hung out just us two. I am ok with being friends, we get along quite well, but I can’t help be feel more and more drawn to her.
    I don’t know if there is any possibility with her, or not. Nor do I really know how to proceed.
    Also because I feel someone may ask, we are both in our late twenties.

    October 11, 2014 at 6:21 am #65709

    This is very similar to the situation I’m going through.

    I wish I had an answer to give you, but I think women are just weird. Maybe she doesn’t want to get hurt, or lose the friendship.

    Take your time, try to be cool (I know it can be hard to resist the urge to TRY and speed things up), and just let her figure out what she wants to do… That’s really all I’m able to do right now, so that’s all I can tell you. Good luck.

    October 12, 2014 at 8:53 pm #65745

    Im also not a dating guru, but i’d just tell her you are willing to try it out
    If she doesnt like it you could be friends?