Whats going on with her?

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Whats going on with her?

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    henke91
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    May 31, 2015 at 3:59 pm #79924
    Whats going on with her?

    Hi guys. I met this really sweet girl, two month ago. We went to a couple of dates and everything went well. Anyway, after third date she started to act really “hard to get”. I mean, we still talked but every time i asked her if she wanted to meet up again, she just acted like it was raining. (We were chatting). So I told myself, hey she’s not interested. (And it was no problem)

    I started to chat with other girls, but then after a few days she wrote to me. So I told myself, hey she is interested ! But then… again, she didn’t want to meet up. So, I stopped talk to her again.

    After a while, she started chatting AGAIN. And this weekend she asked me if I were going out, if we could meet up?
    We didn’t meet up, i had other plans and now she’s weird again. I can’t read her mind. I really need help, how to get her interested ?


    sindu5673
    Participant
    May 31, 2015 at 11:40 pm #79932

    Well by reading your post I can notice a pattern, when you ignore her then she chases and once she has your attention again then she flakes. She’s done it multiple times. Why? Could be several reasons but I don’t I fall far off the truth saying that you probable aren’t her priority but still keeps you on the side as someone to get attention from to make her validated. I wouldn’t waste more time on her and would just move on for good. If she contacts you again ignore her.


    qranubis
    Participant
    June 1, 2015 at 5:45 pm #79958

    She sounds indecisive. Maybe she has other options lined up and is fickle about them but doesn’t want to let you go in case you turn out to be the option she ends up wanting. Known a few girls like that, they tend to play games.


    marcelac
    Participant
    June 3, 2015 at 4:10 pm #80112

    Sounds like she has other options and she’s placing you on a wait list.
    Did you give her an alternative when she asked to meet up? Maybe she think you are rejecting him now?