What's the deal with this guy? Online

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What's the deal with this guy? Online

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    leah1888
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    April 9, 2013 at 9:39 am #28016
    What's the deal with this guy? Online

    I met this guy through a dating site. I thought his posts were funny. Right off the bat he started talking to me, we exchanged numbers etc

    We’ve been speaking for nearly a month and he seems pretty nice. He asked me if I speak to any other guys and stuff and started asking about my personal life

    He lives about 45 mins away on the tube which isn’t that far at all. But he said he is never coming here to visit me which upset me.

    He asks me if I have time for him and that he wants to see me but whenever it gets down to making it an official plan he goes around in circles about it and he says things like ‘hopefully’ and ‘if god wills’ to avoid yes/no answers

    It’s just pretty irritating. I’ve decided there is no point speaking to him if he doesn’t wanna meet up but I don’t want to let go of this that fast. He seems like a cool guy.

    We’re both the same age. We’ve both seen pictures and videos of each other. He tells me I’m pretty and stuff.
    oh, i almost forget the site is seekrich dot com (it’s a serious dating site where you can find suuceeful man and beautiful woman)

    What should I do?
    Let go of it? Act cool? Wait a bit longer?

    He told me he doesn’t meet up with anyone in real life. Suggesting he probably sweet talks every other girl he meets online?

    I don’t really know to be honest

    dumbGames
    dumbGames
    Participant
    April 11, 2013 at 5:15 pm #28445

    Haha, you answered your own question. He said he doesn’t like meeting up with anyone in real life. He’s just using online dating sites to feel like he’s somewhat socially acceptable in the world. We can all play a different role, have a different name and be the “coolest” person online but it’s fake. There’s no relationship happening here. Remember the point of online dating is to go OFFLINE.

    Look up the term “catfished” there’s a funny show on MTV too. Don’t be one of those naive people.

    sphinx_s
    sphinx_s
    Participant
    April 12, 2013 at 3:21 pm #28505

    I agree with the last post.

    This isn’t a typical “chase” I heard a saying, guys chase girls like sperm chases egg. Remember that. You seem a little desperate to be with someone you probably won’t ever meet. Find a REAL guy