What's the problem? Girls are confusing me!


What's the problem? Girls are confusing me!

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    April 13, 2016 at 10:59 am #97678
    What's the problem? Girls are confusing me!

    I have been out with many beautiful girls, it normally gets to the second or first date and the stop being interested over text. I don’t know what the problem is, I definitely don’t come on too strong, I’m good at showing interest then becoming aloof which makes them want me more.
    The first girl I dated just suddenly started to say she was busy after
    The second girl was really keen and interested telling all her friends how much she like me, texting me first and all the time, then started to ignore me. I asked her friends and they said she said I was too perfect.
    The third girl was great, we got on very well, we had sex by the second date and I’m the first guy she’s been with,she said it was amazing and couldn’t stop thinking about it, now I texted her to meet up twice, both times busy.

    April 13, 2016 at 10:59 am #97679

    I’m 6ft blonde blue eyes, a successful entrepreneur and model, I’m very popular, and quite flirty ( definitely don’t come across as a nice guy as I’m very confident and forward with what I want, very assertive and spontaneous), so what’s the problem! The girls all seem so into me when I’m with them, but then they just lose interest over text, but what is it?
    I first though it was bad breath, got it checked and I don’t have it, even asked a one night stand and she said no I don’t have bad breath.
    I don’t know what it is! I’m handsome,rich and intelligent. What is putting these girls off? I don’t talk about myself too much, always keep the conversation centred on them in a funny light hearted manner. I get a feeling they may think I’m a player, but when has that ever stopped a girl falling for a guy, and I’m genuinely not?
    Please help, I’m getting so down, what wrong with me?

    April 14, 2016 at 9:02 am #97694

    I don’t know, I’d have to chat with you for a while.