When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

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When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

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    Msphdnot
    Msphdnot
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    August 31, 2015 at 7:41 pm #84990
    When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    Ok, I posted my pic so you could see how blessed I’ve been to look so young and be in excellent health and a nice figure. I met this great guy online 2 weeks ago. We’re clicking like crazy. We’re 1hr and 40 minutes apart from each other and he’s coming to see me this weekend. What’s the problem??? I am 64yrs old and online I said I was 54 (he’s 54) and looks great also. My experience online when I say my true age I get some horrible looking people, and hardly a handful of responses. When I drop my age, I get flooded with lots and lots of guys. So it’s very obvious to me that nobody wants to date a 64 year old lady but I’m the exception. I’m in this weird category. I have to tell him….but I just don’t know when. Should I do it when I meet him this weekend or wait as we continue to get closer…………………..HELP I need all the help I can get.

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    jjp8231
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    September 1, 2015 at 5:33 pm #85017

    I would tell him this weekend so he knows right off the bat. Good luck!

    Msphdnot
    Msphdnot
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    September 2, 2015 at 4:54 pm #85023

    Thanks for you response and your advice. That’s what my gut tells me too.

    SopranoTony
    SopranoTony
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 3:28 am #85043

    Hi! Yeah you are very nice looking woman! And I thin everything will be ok!

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 1 month ago by SopranoTony SopranoTony.
    • This reply was modified 2 years, 1 month ago by SopranoTony SopranoTony.

    DrDee
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 5:56 am #85047

    Wow. This is difficult. I think you should meet him first, get close to him a bit and tell him after meeting three times, that way it would be difficult to cut off the relationship if he ever wants to.

    levelup
    levelup
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 1:22 pm #85095

    I think you should tell him when you first meet. Not right away but when/if you feel you are getting along, and want to see him again, then tell him. Basically tell him as soon as it is appropriate, but not right away (if you don’t like him then you don’t have to tell him!).

    Msphdnot
    Msphdnot
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    September 4, 2015 at 9:05 am #85116

    Thank you !!

    Msphdnot
    Msphdnot
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    September 4, 2015 at 9:09 am #85117

    Thank You!!

    Msphdnot
    Msphdnot
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    September 4, 2015 at 9:12 am #85118

    Difficult is right. Thanks for your advice.


    Hyperion123
    Participant
    September 4, 2015 at 1:31 pm #85124
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    Tell him immediately


    LaRoy
    Participant
    September 5, 2015 at 7:28 pm #85161
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    i think you should tell him right now before things get more complicated than they should, if you try to build up a relationship and then you tell him you’re 10 years older out of the blue he might freak out and won’t be able to trust you again


    rnatk7
    Participant
    September 5, 2015 at 10:15 pm #85163
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    this weekend


    lachrymose
    Participant
    September 14, 2015 at 7:35 pm #85430
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    always be honest with your age or it will come back to haunt you


    pmax
    Participant
    September 15, 2015 at 1:49 am #85438
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    The sooner the better


    CuriousGirl
    Participant
    September 20, 2015 at 2:05 pm #85621
    Reply To: When should I tell him I'm older..????? I'm dying here.

    Wait until you meet to see if you still click in-person.

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