Where did I go wrong?

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Where did I go wrong?

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    205047053
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    February 13, 2016 at 1:32 pm #93511
    Where did I go wrong?

    So to start…this really cute girl asks me to send her a vday card, before I didnt even think of her like that but then I started to because it seemed she clearly liked Me and she is attractive. So about a week later I sent one to her class, and I didnt think much would go on from there (because I wasn’t near her when she got the card, and we dont see each other the rest of the day). I get home and I find out she went out of her way(got it from one of our mutual friends) to find my snapchat to “thank me” I guess, ( this was the last day before our break btw). So while im trying to gauge if this was really just a thank you text or what ( she could have just told one of our friends right?) She says something along the lines of “when I realized who the card was from I said “yes!””. Now im dancing and super happy cause it couldn’t be any clearer….so I ask her to prom and she says she doesn’t think she even going to our prom and that if she did she didnt want a date……that’s okay


    205047053
    Participant
    February 13, 2016 at 1:36 pm #93512

    I guess…. then a few minutes later I ask her on a date (its Valentines day weekend, then a week off school she cant dub me on this right?) Wrong. She says she’s working all weekend and she’s not sure if she will free during the week….. this was last night we just kinda stopped texting….. I dont know what I did wrong…. if I did anything wrong or where to go from here….. someone help…..

    djames
    djames
    Participant
    February 16, 2016 at 9:05 am #93669

    If she already sent signals (your perception decides this), then you should be forthcoming with how you feel. Text her up casually like “hey Valentine” or something like that to play off the V-day card you sent her.