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I wonder where should a guy start to find “the one” after he’s had many set backs, disappointments and breakups?
AnonymousOctober 1, 2014 at 6:59 am #65137
Start with those nearest and dearest to you how well do you know your friends and is there a possibility of romance blossoming? Or how about meeting new faces at work or in clubs. Don’t go searching for ‘the one’ just look for friendship with the possibility of romance, take the pressure off of yourself.
yongnatoParticipantOctober 2, 2014 at 9:04 am #65201
Agreed, Don’t look for one.. but rather find one by looking at people around you… sometimes by making so much effort to look for one, you actually oversee “the one” that is always there for you. you might end up disappointing them and maybe letting that one person who actually cared for you move on.
Quality over quantity, Personality over Physics… I’ve once dated hot girl who actually cheated me and dumped me.. in my depressed moment, I overlooked one girl that actually cared for me, one who is always there for me. even thought she is very average. I actually tried to get back with this hot girl who treated me like trash, later on in life I finally realized who loved me and now I’m happily in relationship with this average girl.
My point is, there might be someone who care for you, but you overlooked her because of her average appearance. so you have to slow down, and start to look at people around you.
Hope this helped. 🙂October 2, 2014 at 10:03 am #65230
Great point of view yongnato and a lot of wisdom in your comments. I happen to have experienced similar experiences in my past. Thank you.
PeaceJoyHappiness25ParticipantOctober 6, 2014 at 8:10 pm #65382
I know it sounds silly but what How I Met Your Mother suggested actually worked for me. Just stop looking for that girl. Just focus on your career or a hobby, and suddenly people start showing up, and then you can eventually pick out one instead of searching for a needle in a haystack, and its very possible that one of those people who show up could be the one…GOOD LUCK!
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