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ferk1717ParticipantFebruary 6, 2013 at 7:53 pm #22071
So I just went on a first date, which I initiated 🙂 We went out for a beer and it went really well, great conversation, a little light touching, all that good stuff. At the end, we hugged briefly and he said we should do it again soon, even suggested a place. When I got home I texted him to thank him for the beers and good time. He responded immediately and said he feels the same and we should do it again one night when I am free. The next day he had already sent me a friend request on facebook, but it has now been a couple days and have heard nothing. I know he is going out of town this weekend. My question is…should I just wait or do you think he is waiting for me to call since his text said, “when I am free”. I already initiated this date so I don’t want to seem desperate (which I certainly am not) but I do like him. any advice??
MaddieLineParticipantFebruary 8, 2013 at 11:59 am #22198
Deffiiinittley don’t ask him out. Completely get him out of your head for the weekend, enjoy time with your girlfriends and find something to occupy your time. You may not hear from him for a few days after he gets back and it might not be until next weekend until you book another date anyway. That’s normal!
You already did date 1, let him do some work, he’ll want to suggest a new place out and treat you. It’s a little game at the beginning but you never want to start off on the wrong foot by being overbearing.
If you want to start conversation, like genuine conversation over text, find something to casually talk about…whether it’s a food item in the grocer isle you two talked about or about some basketball game he likes to watch…. Just keep it super casual and it’ll be a friendly conversation he’ll want to take in person.
AriannaJonesParticipantFebruary 14, 2013 at 12:54 pm #22756
It’s totally the honeymoon phase, I’m sure you’ll be hanging out in no time and you won’t think twice about who should text who. It is valentine’s day today, he may not want to put any added pressure if you two just started hanging out, so nothing to worry about! Be his friend first, THEN worry about bein exclusive.
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