Why Did He Talk To Me Only After I Blocked Him?


Why Did He Talk To Me Only After I Blocked Him?

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    May 10, 2018 at 6:59 pm #172865
    Why Did He Talk To Me Only After I Blocked Him?

    Met him on a recent trip. We didn’t know each other beforehand. Initially he came across moody and standoffish. I didn’t talk to him at all and just hung out with my friends. A couple of days in he started trying to talk to me and kept asking me the same question over and over (about my church.)
    The night before we came back to the states the group went out to eat at a restaurant and out of nowhere he asked me to sit next to him at his table. I was shocked and nervous, said “no thank you”, and stumbled over to another table with my friends.

    Before the dinner was over he came to my table and asked me if we could keep in touch as in FB. Again I was shocked but agreed. When we returned to the states he sent me a FB request and I accepted. The only thing, he didn’t talk to me at all. Instead, he started copying everything I did. As in, if I put up a picture of the beach, he would do the same thing. If I quoted an inspirational saying, he would do the same thing and on and on.

    May 10, 2018 at 7:00 pm #172866


    He even changed his profile picture to reflect a younger version of himself when he was more virile and handsome.

    I eventually got tired of him not talking to me and just copying me so I blocked him. Needless to say a few days later he emailed me and invited me to a X-mas party. I couldn’t attend so I politely declined and thanked him and he said he hoped to see me again.

    Question: Is he playing games? He seemed so normal in the email. Why couldn’t he be normal on FB?

    Another thing he did on the trip he called me over one day and tried to introduce me to another guy? And was sort of trying to ask me if I was interested in him. Huh?

    May 11, 2018 at 5:39 am #172876

    Chances are he liked you but was trying to push you away. He’s finally realized he needs to get his sh** together so he’s talking to you.
    For me, my bf acted standoffish too. He was like I don’t want a relationship and would reject my advances. Finally, when I told him I was done with him, he confessed that he liked me and was deliberately rejecting me because he did not want to admit it. Good luck to you.

    May 11, 2018 at 12:31 pm #172938

    Thank you, pakster123,

    Wow, did your boyfriend ever tell you specifically why he was rejecting you and didn’t want to admit that he liked you? Was it something that had to do with him?

    May 21, 2018 at 6:57 pm #174827

    He told me he was insecure. He also didn’t want to admit that he liked me.