Why does he find it so fun to tease?

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Why does he find it so fun to tease?

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    Springfairy
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    February 23, 2015 at 7:43 am #73911
    Why does he find it so fun to tease?

    This guy at work is always teasing me.I thought maybe its his way of flirting, he’s been doing it for a while.And over the past couple of days, he’s really into teasing me.
    For example, yesterday:
    I come upstairs for my break.He’s there waiting to clock in, in an hour.He starts a conversation with me, forgot what it was.But half way through the talk, I get the hiccups.He starts mocking my hiccups and laughing, which causes me to laugh.And he kept doing it.I finally asked.”What’s your problem?” He’s like “Nothing, I’m just teasing you.” I asked “Why?” He said.”I don’t know, its fun to tease you.” Another co-worker came upstairs and talked about how it was almost march.After that co-worker left, this guy said “Do you know why march is my favorite month?” I said “Your birthday.” He then asked me if I had any ideas on what he should do on his birthday.I didn’t.Then he said “Maybe I’ll go to the casino” I said sounded good.He then told me about a casino in Vegas, that I should go there


    Springfairy
    Participant
    February 23, 2015 at 7:47 am #73912

    -continued from first post-

    I told him, I hate flying very much.He asked me why.I told I get panic attacks on planes, and I hate heights.He said, “You’d feel better if you had someone with you.Your mom?” I told him “Nope, she hates flying too.” and then he said…”What about me? You would feel better with me there wouldn’t you?” I told him maybe, but I’d still be scared, he said “Aww, I’d wouldn’t let anything happen.You could hold on to me for as long as you wanted.You’d forget your fears.And we’d have a great time together in Vegas!”

    He has done these things before.Here is a thread from last year: http://www.datingadvice.com/forum/topic/he-toyed-with-my-emotions-didnt-he
    I don’t think he likes me(I do like him) But I’m having a hard time reading him


    Springfairy
    Participant
    February 23, 2015 at 7:57 am #73913

    For some reason I can’t edit my post.One last bit of detail.
    And lately he’s been wanting me to text even more.The day before yesterday, same situation but different conversation.
    I was sitting there listening to music videos on youtube.He kept looking at me, and smiling.I looked over, but looked back to my video.He looks at me and again does the same thing.After about 4 or 5 times of this.I ask what’s up with him/what his problem is.He said.”I dare you to text me right now.”I thought What kind of dare is that lol.” I’m like ok.But I didn’t text, I went back to videos.He said “Well, you gonna text me or not.” I was like “What should I text you?” He told me anything.So I said hi.He texted “What’s up?” I didn’t respond right away, which lead him to say.”Come on, keep on texting” I was like why? He said he had a surprise text for me.I told him, we’re sitting right here, can’t you tell me what you need to tell me in person.
    His face went red and he started laughing.


    linda_zhang
    Participant
    February 23, 2015 at 9:22 am #73918

    He clearly likes you… And that’s just how he likes to flirt and get your attention. And teasing is fun, too. 😉


    Springfairy
    Participant
    February 23, 2015 at 6:38 pm #73997

    He clearly likes you… And that’s just how he likes to flirt and get your attention. And teasing is fun, too. ;)

    If that’s the case, why doesn’t he just say he likes me?
    I don’t tell him I like him, because I’m a very shy person.
    He is not shy.He is very outgoing and enthusiastic.