Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?


Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?

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    January 28, 2016 at 10:59 am #92358
    Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?

    Hi, I’m a 22 year old guy. I’ve never had a girlfriend, though I’ve gone out with a female friend before a couple of times on what I thought were dates. We appreciate each other’s company. But when I asked her out, she told me that she was older than me and that she needed to settle some other issues with her ex-boyfriend. At school, I was a quite of a “popular” guy and did have attention from girls. The problem was that I was too young and could not recognise the signs girls were giving me.
    I’m currently at university, where I am particularly known as being bright student, given that I do well in tests and exams.
    I am generally self-confident, and would humbly say that I am above-average looking (though I am now overweight due to a health problem, but the kilos are melting away now).
    Why don’t I have a girlfriend yet? I’ll do whatever it takes to get a girlfriend. I’m now 22 and feel that I am missing out on the fun years of dating.
    I would love your advice. Many thanks.

    • This topic was modified 2 years, 2 months ago by  Laross.

    January 28, 2016 at 10:50 pm #92409

    i feel like you just need to be yourself and dont force anything, the time will come 🙂

    January 29, 2016 at 9:02 pm #92450

    Im 26 and am the same way, didn’t get my first kiss until I was 24 and haven’t been able to get a girl interested in me for more than 2 weeks and im an airline pilot! This stuff aint easy as people make it out to be. Have been searching answers for a long time and neither I nor any of my friends can figure this problem out. If you got your first kiss already then you are way ahead of me at that age!

    San Diego
    January 30, 2016 at 2:22 am #92456

    force yourself to talk to 15 girls per week and try to hold a 5min conversation. Dosent matter where, Starbucks, bar, class room

    January 30, 2016 at 5:32 am #92457


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    January 30, 2016 at 3:01 pm #92473

    Enjoy life, socialise, you’ll meet someone eventually, put yourself out there and you never know x

    January 30, 2016 at 8:02 pm #92481

    Seems like you’re too preoccupied with it, people can tell when you’re desperate.

    February 1, 2016 at 9:05 am #92465

    Nothing wrong. Just let time do its thing.

    February 4, 2016 at 5:31 pm #92958
    Reply To: Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?

    it will come in time

    February 6, 2016 at 2:10 pm #93068
    Reply To: Why don't I have a girlfriend yet?

    I am in the same boat my friend. You have a lot going for you so don’t worry about it.