Why hasn't he contacted me after our second date?

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Why hasn't he contacted me after our second date?

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    Kerry-Ann
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    May 16, 2016 at 8:17 pm #100563
    Why hasn't he contacted me after our second date?

    I met this guy online. We went out for a date and I thought we really hit it off. At the end of the date we kissed and he said we should ban out again. When I got home I got a text from him asking if I got home safe. We went out for a second date a week later. I thought the date went really well. He even told me he was glad we were hangin out again. He did mention wanting to hang or again at the end of our date. However after I got home I didn’t get a text. It’s been 3 days and I still haven’t heard from him. Why hasn’t he texted me? He didn’t even check up to see if I got home safe. What should I do? Should I text him or wait until he texts me?


    Sicaran
    Participant
    May 17, 2016 at 1:23 am #100572

    He could just be busy. I know when I’m busy with school/ work I hardly text my girlfriend.


    barbs
    Participant
    May 17, 2016 at 5:07 am #100579

    Thanks for reply, I’m taking the fact that he was really keen to book date in halfway through our first date and wanted to see me as soon as he is home as a good sign! He had everyday out he could of just said he would call me after his trip


    bberries
    Participant
    May 18, 2016 at 2:41 pm #100733

    Just wait for a few days. If you don’t hear from him after that, move on.


    patrickJay
    Participant
    May 18, 2016 at 6:48 pm #100750

    I think he’d like you to show that you like him aswell! So that it’s not just he who initiates conversations all the time.


    smittykittycat
    Participant
    May 20, 2016 at 3:17 am #100841

    Agreed!


    kingkutta213
    Participant
    May 21, 2016 at 2:38 pm #100927

    He could be waiting for you to talk to him first. I’ve done this plenty of times. If youre interested, send him a message.