Wife lying about porn / vibrator – advice

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Wife lying about porn / vibrator – advice

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    calidad
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    February 12, 2017 at 1:32 pm #126604
    Wife lying about porn / vibrator – advice

    My partner and study Tantra and the first 18 months were unbelievable. Super hot, kinky, open, experimental and to the stage where we literally were sharing orgasms. Since then we’ve had a daily practice -we make love 6-7 days a week.

    We do have trust issues – in the beginning she hooked up with a few men and lied about it for6 months. She finally came clean when I threatened to break it off. It took many months of effort on both our parts to rebuild trust.

    I discovered 8 months ago she way using porn solo (yes I spied on her). So I started using porn solo too. Then she asked me to stop and I confronted her and she lied. Called her out and yet she keeps lying about it and leaving wet towels around etc. She won’t integrate clitoral into our sex anymore and I don’t like the lying, the double standard or the fact that I can’t touch her clit. She has psoriasis sometimes on her lesbian nad uses that as an excuse—sometimes the same day she uses vibe.

    what to do?

    richiro
    richiro
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    February 12, 2017 at 1:39 pm #126606

    yo have 2 choices…. i think.
    either you decide this is a gal just for sex (great sex) and meets your sexual desires…. and you are okay with just that.
    or you decide you need more than that from somebody and leave her – b/c it’s obvious you won’t get anything serious from her. its just about the sex for her.

    good luck.