Work Crush

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Work Crush

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    buttercup14
    Participant
    September 14, 2014 at 3:54 pm #61947
    Work Crush

    So I have a major crush on a guy at work (to the point i look forward to Mondays) and I am going out of my mind! I have known him for 2 years, gone from disliking him to not being able to get him off my mind! For the first year we did flirt but he was like a supervisor, starting something romantic would of been seriously frowned upon. He has since stepped down. We have very flirty conversations, he touches my arm when we speak, recently even started hugging – all pretty good signs. But then there are times I feel like he cannot wait to stop talking to me and we rarely talk outside of work, we have 6message outburst initiated by me. I recently left a sticker on his desk (private joke) which he has taken home and stuck to his TV.
    I am absolutely rubbish with things like this as I am not overly confident about myself, I also know that he isn’t either, doubt he would make a move. I feel like it would fall to me but i don’t want to look a prat as we work together. Any advice PLEASE!!!!!!

    MayDecember88
    MayDecember88
    Participant
    September 14, 2014 at 9:06 pm #61957

    try to ask him out casually, like to grab coffee, and go from there

    KittyHammer
    KittyHammer
    Participant
    September 15, 2014 at 8:45 am #61949

    1) If you don’t care about being fired: get closer to him physically and flirt that way.
    2) If you do want to keep your job: leave a sticker with a note to invite him out, even if it’s for 6 minutes outside of work.

    That guy wants you; he’s waiting for a sign from you to move it forward. A guy will only go as far as the girl he likes let’s him. Go get him.


    ha541
    Participant
    September 16, 2014 at 8:03 am #62008

    He seems to definitely want you so you should just ask him to grab coffee or something out of work.


    pumpkin
    Participant
    September 19, 2014 at 5:31 pm #62315

    Yeah ask him out for lunch, it’s normal to ask colleagues this so if he says no then no embarrassment for you but if he goes- bingo! 🙂


    flo112
    Participant
    September 20, 2014 at 2:08 pm #62321

    Take initiative and ask him out!