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Justme2014

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July 24, 2014 at 9:41 am #58112

Worried. What do I do?

After seven years of dating my boyfriend says he wants a second girlfriend.

He says he still loves me, yet he seems to not realize that this hurts me deeply. I supported him for 6 years while he was unemployed and stood by his side during really tough times. I asked him: “How would YOU feel if I had two boyfriends?” His response was 100% against that idea. Please help. Why would he do this to me?

jconventional4

Participant

July 27, 2014 at 4:27 pm #58352

That is strange. Have you sat down one on one with him and asked what each person is wanting out of the relationship?

Anonymous

July 30, 2014 at 8:52 am #58458

Dump him. He used you. And now wants something different. He wants to cut the cake and eat it too aka he wants to keep you but wants to mess round with other girls. He doesn’t get both, that is selfish. Unless you want to be swingers, dump him. I mean… He will never propose since he doesn’t want only you. Its the truth…. Sorry girl.

karmasangel

Participant

July 30, 2014 at 3:59 pm #58595

Anonymous wrote:

Dump him. He used you. And now wants something different. He wants to cut the cake and eat it too aka he wants to keep you but wants to mess round with other girls. He doesn’t get both, that is selfish. Unless you want to be swingers, dump him. I mean… He will never propose since he doesn’t want only you. Its the truth…. Sorry girl.

I definitely agree ^^^^^^^^^

Anonymous

August 6, 2014 at 12:11 pm #58896

Unfortunatelly the guy is fed up with relationships with you. As I understand he wants to try to day somebody else. 6 years is a lot of time. You are really a part of life of each other. Take a break – maybe you will understand that you don’t need anybody else and continue dating or not…