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10 Worst Dating “Horror Stories” (Lesbian Edition)

10 Worst Dating “Horror Stories” (Lesbian Edition)

Any lesbian single who has been dating for any length of time has one or more(read more)

Researchers One Step Closer to Vaginal Ring for HIV Prevention In Women

Researchers One Step Closer to Vaginal Ring for HIV Prevention In Women

In sub-Saharan Africa, HIV proves to be one of the most common and lethal infections,(read more)

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Match.com

Match.com has led to more dates, marriages and relationships than any other site. Its impressive user base and success rate make it our top review.

6 Best Cities For Lesbians

6 Best Cities For Lesbians

Considering we live in the land of the free, many gay communities have the opportunity(read more)

Love Wins: Supreme Court Decision Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage Nationwide

Love Wins: Supreme Court Decision Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage Nationwide

After decades of untold struggle, love has finally won. In a historic ruling today, June 26,(read more)

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Zoosk

Zoosk's integration with social networks and its popular smartphone app make it one of the web's fastest-growing dating sites for casual and serious daters.

10 Worst Dating “Horror Stories” (Lesbian Edition)

10 Worst Dating “Horror Stories” (Lesbian Edition)

Any lesbian single who has been dating for any length of time has one or more(read more)

6 Best Cities For Lesbians

6 Best Cities For Lesbians

Considering we live in the land of the free, many gay communities have the opportunity(read more)

POZ: Reducing HIV Stigma One Story at a Time

POZ: Reducing HIV Stigma One Story at a Time

The 411: Featuring a dating network of 150,000+ members, personal testimonies added weekly and consistently-updated news,(read more)

Dr. Gail Dines: Leading the Revolution Against the “Pornification of Our Culture”

Dr. Gail Dines: Leading the Revolution Against the “Pornification of Our Culture”

The 411: As a professor of sociology and women’s studies, an internationally acclaimed speaker and author,(read more)

LSRJ: The Leading Law Student Organization Supporting Reproductive Justice

LSRJ: The Leading Law Student Organization Supporting Reproductive Justice

The 411: With a presence at more than 100 law schools across the country, Law Students(read more)

10 Best Blogs for Single Parents

10 Best Blogs for Single Parents

Being a single parent is tough, but trying to meet someone willing to fully care(read more)

Researchers One Step Closer to Vaginal Ring for HIV Prevention In Women

Researchers One Step Closer to Vaginal Ring for HIV Prevention In Women

In sub-Saharan Africa, HIV proves to be one of the most common and lethal infections,(read more)

Love Wins: Supreme Court Decision Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage Nationwide

Love Wins: Supreme Court Decision Legalizes Same-Sex Marriage Nationwide

After decades of untold struggle, love has finally won. In a historic ruling today, June 26,(read more)

Sexual Ambiguity In Non-Heterosexual Women May Lead To Hazardous Behaviors

Sexual Ambiguity In Non-Heterosexual Women May Lead To Hazardous Behaviors

For women who are trapped in the limbo of sexuality, there may be a greater(read more)

Gender as a Strategy: Exploring the History of Black “Transness”

Gender as a Strategy: Exploring the History of Black “Transness”

Discussing the idea of transgender individuals in the African-American community is relatively uncharted territory, but(read more)

Study: HIV-Infected Transgender Women Have Poorer Disease Control

Study: HIV-Infected Transgender Women Have Poorer Disease Control

The transgender community has just as many discrepancies as any other group of individuals. With(read more)

The Pioneer of Psychology: APA’s 10 Most Influential Sexuality Studies

The Pioneer of Psychology: APA’s 10 Most Influential Sexuality Studies

Since 1892, the American Psychological Association (APA) has been paving the way for advancing the creation,(read more)

 Online Dating Site

Match.com

Match.com has led to more dates, marriages and relationships than any other site. Its impressive user base and success rate make it our top review.

 Online Dating Site

Zoosk

Zoosk's integration with social networks and its popular smartphone app make it one of the web's fastest-growing dating sites for casual and serious daters.

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eHarmony

Accounting for 2% of U.S. marriages, eHarmony's compatibility-based system and commitment-minded user base are ideal for those seeking a serious relationship.

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OurTime.com

OurTime is quickly gaining popularity amongst older singles, featuring an extensive profile search and simple interface. Exclusively for ages 50+.

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BlackPeopleMeet

BlackPeopleMeet.com is the largest online dating site for black and interracial daters of all backgrounds, and is used by 1.4 million daters each month.

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Chemistry.com

Similar to eHarmony, but with a smaller user base and an accepting approach to all sexualities. Paid membership required for basic features.