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|Damona Hoffman • 11/06/15|
One of the most brilliant things about online dating is that even an average-looking guy who is not loaded has a chance with super-sexy woman who might not give him the time of day in a bar.
Here’s the problem: attractive women receive dozens – sometimes even hundreds – of messages in a single day. The key to making the cut is to zig while everyone else zags and stand out in her mind. These 6 insider tips will help you get the hot girl’s attention online.
On any site that allows a subject line, make sure you lead off with something that gets her attention. “Hey girl, you look gooood,” is not going to do it.
It could be related to something in her profile, something that is amazing about you or a hilarious or off-the-wall statement she could not pass up.
If you don’t get a subject line, make the first line of your email clever and you will be more likely to stand out in her inbox.
An OkCupid study showed women were more likely to write to a man who was not smiling in his primary photo than one who was.
In fact, looking away from the camera as if something interesting just caught your eye will drive her wild with intrigue. Just make sure it looks natural and effortless.
“Let your photos show her
how amazing your life is.”
You’d be surprised by how many men send out messages to women they find attractive without actually reading their profiles.
Not sending a personalized message greatly reduces your chance of a response with the hot girl online. It’s virtually impossible to get her to write to you without a thoughtful note.
Take a moment to read about her love of dogs, and then tell her about your rescue work, drawing her attention to your puppy profile pic. Her heart will melt for you.
She’s the hot girl online. She hears how sexy she is every day of the week, both online and off. Why would she be impressed by your comment that she’s beautiful?
Instead, mention one thing that’s unique and interesting about her that most of the guys missed and she’ll be putty in your hands.
There are dating experts and pickup artists that will tell you a girl likes to be challenged and will respond to an insult faster than a compliment.
You might get a response but coming from a woman who has been a dating coach for nearly 10 years, I can say confidently you will catch more bees with honey and they’re more likely to stick around.
Pictures speak a thousand words, so let your photos show her how amazing your life is and how much she wishes she could be a part of it.
Include your travel pics, shots of you dressed up for work (assuming you wear a suit, not a fast food apron) and all the exciting activities you enjoy.
Once she sees how cool your life seems, she’ll want to join in the fun.
Whenever I poll my female clients for their most desired qualities in a mate, confidence and sense of humor always top of the list. Armed with this info and the six ways to get the hot girl’s attention online, you’re sure to rise to the top of her list of suitors.
Photo source: sheknows.com.