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“Cougar Life Review” — And 5 Other Cougar Dating Sites

Amber Brooks • 2/28/17 •
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Niche dating sites have become very popular, and it seems like there’s something for everyone these days — from the super specific (e.g., Trekkies) to the more general (e.g., Jewish singles).

For cougars looking for cubs and vice versa, a go-to is the appropriately-named Cougar Life. Below is our review of the older women/younger men dating site as well as a few alternative choices that are right up your alley.

Cougar Life Review | 5 Other Cougar Dating Sites

Cougar Life: Targeted User Base But Pricey (3.4/5.0 Rating)

Cougar Life, which was launched in 2008, is dedicated to “mature women and the men who love them,” and they have a more expansive definition of the cougar-cub relationship. On the homepage, the example is that of a single dad around 32 and a busy woman around 45, who, according to the site, are more likely to have a successful relationship because they both have independent, well-rounded lives and understand each other’s individual demands.

Singles 18 and over are welcome to register, but Cougar Life’s target demographic is women aged 30 and older. The site describes their female members as modern, confident, fun-loving, sexy and smart, and include CEOs and stay-at-home moms. Meanwhile, male members are described as energetic, less judgmental, and, of course, younger.

Cougar Life has a broader definition of the cougar-cub relationship and welcomes women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, and beyond.

You can sign up for Cougar Life for free on the homepage or download the app, which is available for both iOS and Android devices. Then you’re allowed to view profiles, create one of your own, and send virtual winks.

If you want access to advanced features, like messaging and private photo exchange, you’ll have to subscribe for a monthly membership: one month for $40, three months for $29 a month, or 12 months for $12 a month. Those who join for 12 months will receive 3,000 credits to be used toward sending virtual gifts and things like that, while those who join for one month get 100 credits. There’s also the option to pay for the Ultimate Match Guarantee program, which says the site will find you a match within the first three months.

5 Other Cougar Dating Sites

Cougar Life has established themselves as a leader in this niche, but you should know they aren’t the only ones out there. We’ve compiled a brief list of some other sites you can take a look at, which actually have more members (millions compared to 700,000) and more affordable prices.

Of all the sites below, the most you could end up spending is $30 for a premium membership, which you don’t really need. The free memberships give you a lot of tools to find a compatible match. On Cougar Life, that price goes as high as $40 a month. Read on to check out our in-depth graphs and learn more:

Make no mistake: this site isn't about making friends, it's about short-term "hookups" and affairs only. Note that a basic account costs $14.95/month, but it's well worth it if casual sex is your goal.

Overall Rating ★★★★ 3.5/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 65% | F: 35%*
Popularity 25.5 Million*

No matter your age, no matter your interest, no matter your location, no matter your gender, no matter your sexual orientation, no matter your race, no matter your religion — Adult Friend Finder will greet you with open arms. And you can’t be the fact that it has 77 million members — think of all the cougars and cubs to choose from!

BeNaughty is a popular "hookup" site that drops all the pretenses of dating and just gets down to the nitty-gritty of hooking up. Browse profiles in any town for free. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 3.5/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 13.3 Million*

Obviously, our sex drives don’t necessarily slow down just because we hit a certain age, and if you’re in that boat, turn to BeNaughty. This is one of the most popular hookup sites around, and while a majority of its audience is younger, that should be a good thing for cougars.

A hookup site specializing in casual encounters, secret affairs, live chats, and member videos, FriendFinder-X skips the awkward "dating" stage of a relationship and fast-forwards straight to the sex.

Overall Rating ★★★ 3.4/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 64% | F: 36%*
Popularity 1.2 Million*

FriendFinder-X doesn’t play games — if you’re looking for someone to hook up, swing, or cheat with, you can freely express that here. And you have plenty of mediums to do so, including IM, email, photos, and videos.

Match.com is a well-known and trusted dating site, having led to more dates, marriages, and relationships than any other site. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★★ 4.9/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 49% | F: 51%*
Popularity 13.5 Million*

On the one hand, Match isn’t strictly for cougars and cubs, but on the other hand, it has more members and is responsible for more romantic connections than any other dating site on the web. You can’t really beat that, right? Match has proven that no matter what your interests are, it can bring you together with the person who can meet those interests.

OurTime is quickly gaining popularity amongst older singles, featuring an easy profile search and interface. OurTime is exclusively for ages 50+. Full Review »

Overall Rating ★★★★ 4.4/5.0
Gender Ratio M: 48% | F: 52%*
Popularity 1.4 Million*

OurTime is meant for mature singles (50+), but we’ll tell you a little secret: anyone aged 18 and over can join. This might be the way for you to go because if you’re a younger man, you’ll be surrounded by cougars. If you’re a mature woman, you’ll have no problem spotting out the types of men you desire — just filter your searches by age.

On Cougar Dating Sites, Age is Just a Number!

Cougar Life is definitely one of the better cougar dating sites on the web. The design is very appealing, their attitude is easygoing and funny, and their services are unique. Having said that, if you want to communicate with that special someone once you find them (and why wouldn’t you?), the price may be a little out of your range. But that’s why we’ve given you a variety of sites to try before you make a full commitment to one.

About The Author

Amber Brooks is a Contributing Editor at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating expert. As an English major in college, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about topics that interest her. Now with a background in writing, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com.