Online Dating

9 Best “Fling” Dating App Options (2017)

Amber Brooks • 2/27/17 •
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In Pauly D’s intro on MTV’s hit show “Jersey Shore,” he says, “I’m not trying to fall in love on the Jersey Shore. I’m just trying to hook up.” If you replace “on the Jersey Shore” with “through online dating,” that quote can apply to a lot of people.

Let’s be real — dating sites and apps aren’t just about finding love. They’re also for finding no-strings-attached fun, which is why we’ve compiled a list of the 9 Best Fling Dating Apps. With these options, you can quickly and easily get the hookup you’ve always wanted.

1. Adult Friend Finder

With over 77 million members and a 100% free membership Adult Friend Finder offers horny singles and couples a lot in terms of size and pricing. Below are some other key facts we think you should know:

One-night stands, full-blown affairs, threesomes, swinging encounters — you name it and Adult Friend Finder can help you find it. A favorite among iOS and Android users, this app is one of the most established and largest names in the hookup industry. Adult Friend Finder has more than 77 million members and is responsible for more than 4.5 million connections.

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The Adult Friend Finder brands has been around for over 21 years, with the site created in 1996 and the app created in the mid-2000s. It’s one of the most well-known names in the online sex industry, and, in recent years, it has upped its security measures to ensure your privacy and anonymity.

2. BeNaughty

BeNaughty, where it’s “fun dating with no waiting,” is an amazing fling dating site, hands down. Thanks to their active chat rooms, free messaging system for women, and location-based matching, you’ll be meeting sexy local singles in no time. Use the graph below to take a peek at what the app is all about.

"Try more new delights. Feel no limits!" is BeNaughty's promise to naughty singles. After you download BeNaughty, you're automatically given a free account. There aren't any limits on how many profiles you view, matches you receive, and chat rooms you participate in. On the app, you can be as racy as you want because your info and conversations are protected by SSL and 24/7 customer service.

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This naughty app has millions of satisfied members, including Wildboy9 who said, “Lots of very stunning members in my area who I really am getting to know — had four dates already and two of them ended up in my bed. Thanks!”

3. FriendFinder-X

Whether you want to find a fling for the night, a threesome fling, or a NSA fling that lasts for months, FriendFinder-X has the tools to help you accomplish your goal. Just check out its impressive numbers:

FriendFinder-X is a popular online sex community that welcomes singles and couples (who are at least 18 years old) with various sexual desires and of various genders, sexual orientations, and locations. Whether you're an iPhone or Android fan, you can download the app without having to pay a cent, and then you can take it wherever you go.

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FriendFinder-X allows you to reach out to your matches via chat, email, and video, but you can also reach out to other members in this way if you have a problem (such as not getting noticed) and you want their insights.

4. MenNation

Gay and bisexual guys, if you’re not on MenNation, your sex life is missing out. This iOS- and Android-compatible app is one of the largest in the world, with over 79 million active members. See for yourself with this graphic:

Not only is MenNation a beloved app just for gay singles and couples, but it's also a beloved app for frisky gay singles and couples. You must be at least 18 years old to join, but then it's a free-for-all. Search for booty calls, orgies, people in open relationships, and practically anything else you can think of — for free!

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MenNation gives users access to all the necessary features for quenching that hookup thirst — including profile creation, search, and chat.

5. LesbianPersonals

LesbianPersonals is MenNation’s lesbian sister site, as you probably guessed from the name. This lesbian sex app allows you to do everything MenNation does.

Hooking up just got easier for lesbian singles and couples thanks to LesbianPersonals. The app, which won't cost you a penny to download, only requires you to complete six steps, and then you're free to start browsing profiles and connecting with millions (30 million, to be exact) passionate ladies.

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You’ve got more than 30 million gay girls waiting for their ideal sex partner, and you could be her! Join today to find out.

6. Tinder

One of the most well-known names in the dating industry, Tinder is the first fling adult dating app to utilize swiping matching technology (right for yes, left for no). Today, Tinder sees more than 1.4 billion swipes a day, is available in more than 196 countries, and facilitates more than 26 million matches a day, with more than 10 billion created overall.

7. Grindr

Grindr is similar to Tinder in that users are matched based on which way they swipe and where they’re located. However, this is a fling dating website and app that’s just for gay and bisexual men.

Grindr is one of the most popular fling dating apps exclusively for gay and bisexual men.

Millions of frisky singles from over 192 countries are on Grindr every day, and you can join them by downloading the app in The App Store or Google Play.

8. Have a Fling

Finding a hookup while on the go is easier than ever thanks to Have a Fling, a free and discreet fling online dating app that welcomes both singles and couples. You must be over 18 to join, but other than that, the world is your oyster on Have a Fling.

9. Down

Known as “the secret way to get down with people nearby,” Down uses mutual interest between members to set them up with a fling.

Down uses mutual interest to match frisky singles.

First, you sign up through Facebook to prove you are who you say you are (your friends won’t know, though!). Next, browse through singles and decide if you want to “Get Down” or “Get Date.” Finally, you’ll be matched if the other person feels the same way.

The Fling You Desire is Just a Download Away!

Just like the Jersey Shore was the go-to place for Pauly D to hook up, fling dating apps and sites are the go-to venues for millions of horny singles. Think about your wants and needs, give this list a run-through, and then go for it. Your libido will thank you!

About The Author

Amber Brooks is a Contributing Editor at DatingAdvice.com. When she was growing up, her family teased her for being "boy crazy," but she preferred to think of herself as a budding dating expert. As an English major in college, Amber honed her communication skills to write clearly, knowledgeably, and passionately about topics that interest her. Now with a background in writing, Amber brings her tireless wit and relatable experiences to DatingAdvice.com.