According to a Gallup poll, about 21% of American men are gay. When you factor in that some of them are married, the percentage of available gay men goes down. That’s why so many gay singles have turned to dating apps for help finding a match. And, when we think of gay dating apps, we can’t help but think about Grindr.
Grindr has been a big name in this industry for years, and below are our thoughts on the app as well as some other options for you to consider — because you can never have too many options when it comes to finding a date or love!
Grindr: Popular But Lots of Fake-Looking Profiles (4.5/5.0 Rating)
Joel Simkhai founded Grindr in 2009, and he’s been CEO ever since as well. Grindr is most commonly known as a hookup app, but here’s its mission straight from the team: “Grindr connects gay men to the world around them, and represents a modern gay lifestyle that brings men together with people, places, and things they care about most.
Available for iOS and Android devices, Grindr has one of the most engaged user bases we’ve ever seen — every day, the app has more than 3 million active users, more than 228 million messages and 20 million photos are sent, and the average member is logged in for 54 minutes.
As with a lot of dating apps, getting started on Grindr is really easy and quick. Provide some info, including your email, username, password, age, and sexual interests. The app also allows tribes like Jock, Otter, Twink, or Bear.
The most popular aspect of Grindr is its location-based matching — it was among the first dating apps to offer this. You’ll be presented with up to 100 men a day who are in your area, and you can swipe right if you like them and left if you don’t. If you want to see different match results, adjust your search filters. Grindr also allows you to chat, share photos, “favorite” compatible members, and block suspicious members.
All of these features are 100% free, but you have the option to upgrade your basic account to a GrindrX account. It costs $5 a month and allows you to do more things like see more profiles a day, send multiple photos at once, and block as many members as you want.
Grindr isn’t just about dating either — the team behind the app cares deeply about improving the LGBTQ community. Grindr for Equality is a branch of the app that promotes justice for LGBTQ individuals — as well as informs people around the world about issues they face. Some of Grindr for Equality’s initiatives include Get the Gay Vote Out and PrEP Education. Grindr makes a difference through its blog, Into, as well, which covers topics like culture, travel, news, entertainment, politics, and personal stories.
We’ve read countless user reviews about Grindr, and we found the majority to be positive. David McMurtry and Aaron Ovedur are just a few of them, respectively writing on Google Play: “ONE word AWESOME” and “The app works great. Easy way to connect with other gays. Nice work!”
However, we also saw a good number of negative reviews, and, boy, are they doozies. The biggest problems seem to be profiles that appear to be fake and a ton of obnoxious and loud ads popping up — whether you’re trying to browse, edit your profile, send photos, or chat.
Brad G. shared his experience on SiteJabber: “Plenty of bots, fake profiles, useless ads, stupid popups, people using fake pictures or stealing other guys pictures, guys with huge egos, sneaking around their partners, etc. Absolutely pointless and useless app as far as I’m concerned.”
3 Other Gay Dating Apps
Grindr is definitely worth checking out, but, if you were at a buffet, you wouldn’t limit yourself to one item, right? So why would you do the same in terms of dating apps? We have three alternative gay dating apps that can satisfy your cravings just as much, if not more, than Grindr. Zoosk kicks off our list:
Launched two years before Grindr, Zoosk has history and impressive numbers behind it — with more than 40 million users, 30 million downloads on iTunes and Google Play, and 3 million messages sent a day. The price tag isn’t too shabby either. It won’t cost you anything to register, upload your information and photos, view profiles, receive match recommendations, and flirt and communicate in a variety of ways.
Meeting gay singles on your phone (whether it's iOS or Android) doesn't get any better than on Zoosk, particularly because it's integrated with Facebook and Google+. When you want to be in control, go to the Search page and view guys based on sexual orientation and other characteristics. When you want Zoosk to do the work, go to the Carousel and SmartPick™ pages.
|Gender Ratio||M: 48% | F: 52%*|
|Available On||iOS, Android|
From the users’ perspective, Zoosk is as just as much of a favorite. Ryan Parkin gave it five stars on TrustPilot.com, saying, “Found my someone within days — excellent.”
Next up is Match, which really needs no introduction, but we’re going to do it anyway. With over 22 years under its belt, and counting, Match is the most established name in the dating industry. Not to mention it has a huge gay audience and is responsible for more romantic connections than any other dating app out there.
With millions of gay singles, Match is a great choice whether you're looking for a date or commitment. Once you download Match either from iTunes or Google Play, you can fill out your information, view profiles and photos, get daily match suggestions, and show interest in several ways, including adding members to your Favorites list and sending flirty winks. It won't cost you a cent!
|Gender Ratio||M: 49% | F: 51%*|
|Available On||iOS, Android|
You can get all the necessary features for free on Match. But, if you upgrade, you’ll get unlimited communication and email read notifications, and it’ll only cost you about $5.46 a month using this discount.
Sexual orientation is, of course, important to you, but if intelligence is high on the list as well, Elite Singles is probably the app for you. Approximately, 82% of its members hold a bachelor’s, master’s, and/or doctorate degree.
While a significant number of Elite Singles' users are college-educated, they vary greatly in age, appearance, location, and (most importantly for gay singles) sexual orientation. The app looks and performs great on iOS and Android, and free features include download, profile creation, browsing, match recommendations, a customized personality assessment, and certain forms of communication.
|Gender Ratio||M: 43% | F: 57%*|
|Available On||iOS, Android|
Elite Singles is also a great choice for those who want a serious relationship instead of a hookup, which is mostly what you’ll find on Grindr. The app says 100% of members are looking for a lifelong partner, and 2,500 of them find it every month.
Grindr Is A Go-To, But It’s Not Alone!
Narrowing down who’s gay and who’s single on your own can be a daunting task, and Grindr has most certainly taken the work off your shoulders. But so have numerous other gay dating apps. Since you’re not spending any money, it’s worth testing them out on your own to see which app (or apps) is the right fit for your needs and lifestyle. We’re confident that the alternatives we’ve listed above will make the cut!