For men who grew up before the internet or during its early stages, they probably remember how hard it was to meet women. You had to take a chance at a bar or event — hoping not just that women would be there but that single, like-minded women would be there. Or you had to rely on personal ads or your family, friends, and/or coworkers introducing you to someone. It was time-consuming, costly, inefficient, and exhausting, to say the least.
But now that we have all kinds of technology at our fingertips, it’s more convenient than ever to meet women. However, online dating has its own complications — mainly knowing which sites to go to. That’s why our experts have put our heads together to find you the nine best free places to meet women online.
With women making up 51% of its 30 million members, Match is hands down your best option for finding a hookup, date, relationship, or marriage. The site has perfected its algorithm over the past 22+ years to pair the most compatible people by gender — as well as sexual orientation, age, location, appearance, education, hobbies, and lifestyle habits.
Match offers a 100% free membership that includes profile creation, unlimited browsing, and various tools for flirting (e.g., Likes, Winks, a Favorites list, and limited messaging).
2. Elite Singles
If you like intellectual women, you’ll want to give Elite Singles a try — more than 80% of its users (a majority of whom are women) have earned a college or university degree. Plus, 165,000 people join the site every month, so you’ll always have new women to meet.
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Elite Singles also doesn’t charge for filling out and editing a profile, uploading photos, or receiving a personality assessment. You won’t be charged for searching for and receiving matches, creating a Favorites list, and sending virtual smiles, among other things, either.
On Zoosk, you’ll never have to worry about missing out on amazing women while you’re at work, in line at Starbucks, on a run, walking the dog, or doing anything else. It has one of the top mobile dating sites and apps around, so it can be used anywhere and will always be on the lookout for you. Not to mention it’ll only take you a minute (and $0) to get started — just sync up with your existing Facebook or Google+ account.
You can get Zoosk through the App Store or Google Play (where it has a lot of great peer reviews) and join a user base of 40 million singles who send over 3 million messages a day.
Accounting for 4% of US marriages, eHarmony is a go-to for those with matrimony on the mind. It’s also a dating site we recommend for Christians because it was co-founded by a Christian theologian and a significant number of members identify as Christian.
The most important thing to know about eHarmony is that it’s the dating site that’ll do most of the work for you. Once you take the 29 Dimensions of Compatibility questionnaire, you won’t have to filter through profiles — eHarmony will do that for you and send you a notification every time it finds someone they think you’ll like.
Mature men looking for women their age have come to the right place with OurTime — but so have younger men looking to meet older women. While the site is meant for singles over 50, anyone over the age of 18 can join. We’re sure you’ll find women who are looking for someone who’s been there, done that, and we’re certain you’ll find women who are looking for someone to whom they can show the ropes.
The site sees more than 1.4 million visitors a month and has a simple layout and features, so you can quickly get through all the formal stuff and to the more important stuff — meeting potential dates and partners — as soon as possible.
6. Christian Mingle
About 83% of Americans identify as Christian, according to a poll on ABC News, and while that seems like a large number, that also includes men and women who are already taken. To help you weed through the masses, you should consider turning to Christian Mingle.
The site is part of the Spark Networks family, a leading niche dating company that owns and operates more than 30 properties, so you know it’s reputable. “Love is Patient. Love is Kind. Love is Here” is Christian Mingle’s motto, and the team promises to have your back every step of the way.
Gender and race can often be among the top dating identifiers, so for single black men interested in single black women, we bring you BlackPeopleMeet (BPM). Over 1.4 million black and biracial singles use the site every month, and we only anticipate that number to grow.
A sister site of Match, BlackPeopleMeet, has facilitated thousands of happy connections, including one couple in Germantown, Maryland. “I was able to find a wonderful woman through the use of your site,” he said. “After one month, I truly feel as though she is the woman of my dreams, and, when the time is right, I will ask her to marry me. Thanks BPM!”
If “I do” isn’t your end goal, you’re not alone. BeNaughty is a premier hookup site with millions of men who feel the same. Here, you can meet single women as well as married women for one-night stands, threesomes, group sex, swinging, affairs, and anything else your frisky mind can think of.
Similar to most casual sex sites, BeNaughty has a lot of free features, but an aspect that makes it stand out is it uses profile verification and SSL encryption to prove that everyone is real, protect your information, and keep scammers out.
9. Chat Rooms
Every hookup, date, relationship, and marriage starts with a conversation, and a lot of those conversations are happening online — thanks to the ever-evolving technology we’re privy to. In addition to dating sites, chat rooms are fantastic places for meeting women. You can IM, send private messages, share photos, emojis, and GIFs, and talk online via phone and video.
FreeChatNow.com, RendezvousChat.com, and Chatib.com rank highest among chat rooms, in general, as well as dating chat rooms, sex chat rooms, chat rooms to meet women, and the like. So you’re in good hands by joining any of them or all three.
Now That You Know Where to Meet Women, Go Actually Meet Them!
The internet has improved our lives in so many ways. We can get groceries delivered to our house, pay bills, finish work projects, and check the weather, and we’ll never run out of cat videos to watch. But, most importantly, the internet is bringing singles together faster and more efficiently. Your special lady is out there, and we’ve just showed you nine ways to find her!