15 Best Free “Swinger” Sites — (Lifestyle, Local, Couple & UK)

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15 Best Free “Swinger” Sites — (Lifestyle, Local, Couple & UK)

Amber Brooks Amber Brooks • 5/15/17

When doing research for this article, I came across some interesting findings about swingers. For example, more than 89% are married or in a committed relationship, over 78% of married swinging couples are happy (vs. 64% of non-swinging married couples), and the average age at which men and women start swinging is 35.2 and 31.4, respectively.

The study I’m referencing was conducted in 2000 by Dr. Curtis Bergstrand (an Associate Professor of Sociology at Bellarmine University) and Jennifer Blevins Williams (who is also within the same department) and was reported by The Swing Scene.

Research like this shows it’s a popular lifestyle and there’s a need for dating websites for swingers, specifically. Why take a chance and search for partners in a bar when they can go online? Below are our 15 favorite options, all of which are also budget friendly.

Best | Lifestyle | Local | Couple | UK

Best Free Swinger Sites (#1-3)

We’ll kick things off with the cherry on top. These best-of-the-best swinging sites have all the perks rolled into one, and consumers and businesses alike give them positive reviews.

1. Adult Friend Finder

Founded in 1996 and with more than 77 million members to date, Adult Friend Finder is one of the most established and most popular dating websites for finding swingers, threesomes, hookups, affairs, and even traditional dates and partners.

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Relationships: Hookups Only

Match System: Search by location, interest, more

Our Experts Say: “Make no mistake: this site isn't about making friends, it's about short-term "hookups" and affairs only. Its popularity is undeniable, boasting more users than any other dating site...”

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But that’s not all — Adult Friend Finder is also one of the most affordable sites in this niche. It won’t cost you anything to register (via desktop or mobile), add your info and photos, specify your interests, browse profiles, see who’s online now, receive match recommendations, and join the AFF® Sex Community, among other things.

2. Fabswingers

Made by swingers for swingers, Fabswingers is 100% free and has been since its launch in 2006. You won’t have to pay anything to sign up, create a Hot list, message and video chat with matches, or browse profiles, events, and clubs. The site has more than 130,000 daily active users, all of whom are verified by the team, and you can sort through them by location, gender, age, relationship status, and activities of interest (e.g., role playing, phone sex, or voyeurism).

3. Kasidie

“Sexually social” and “change your life” are the words that greet you on Kasidie.com, a swingers site determined to help you find the sexual adventures you’re looking for. You must be 18 years old or over to join, and you just need to input four pieces of information: username, password, email, and how you’re registering (as a couple, single male, or single female).

Screenshot of the Kasidie homepage

Not only can Kasidie connect you with swingers, but it can also help you find related parties nearby.

Features on Kasidie include the usual (search and messaging) and the unique (unlimited photo albums and private communities for discussing a variety of topics). And you won’t need your wallet to use any of them.

Best Swingers “Lifestyle” Sites (#4-6)

Learning and staying up to speed about the swinging lifestyle is just as important as finding partners to swing with. Think of the next three sites as your teachers for Swinging 101 — they’ll take you through everything you could possibly need to know.

4. SwingLifestyle

“Start your sexual revolution” at SwingLifestyle. In addition to bringing swingers and their admirers together, the site also provides helpful articles, personal stories, entertaining studies, and listings of local groups and exotic vacation destinations — for free.

5. SwingTowns

Whether you’re into swinging, polyamory, or BDSM and other fetishes, SwingTowns is here to match you with like-minded people and offer advice throughout your journey.

Screenshot of the SwingTowns homepage

SwingTowns is a lifestyle site for swingers that covers every topic in this niche industry.

Here are some quick SwingTowns stats: 5,468 new members, 4,970 users online now, 4,627 groups, 2,385 new pictures, and 723 clubs. You could join by posting your personal ad — it doesn’t cost a cent.

6. SwingerLifestyle

With the same motto as SwingLifestyle, “start your sexual revolution,” SwingerLifestyle appears to be a sister site with a similar mission but with some different components. These include a swinger dictionary with dozens of words, such as ACDC, and swinger drinks, such as an Absinthe Frappé.

Best “Local” Swinger Sites (#7-9)

Just as in real estate, location, location, location is important in swinging. What’s the point of matching with someone (or someones) if they live across the country? Take advantage of the services the best local swinger sites offer, and you might just find your ideal match is right around the corner.

7. Local Sexy Swingers

Local Sexy Swingers has a very straightforward name, and we appreciate that about the site. There are no games here — just people who are upfront about their wants and needs. Local Sexy Swingers has an impressive user base (30 million) that ranges in ages, sexual orientations, cultures, and, of course, locations. Choose your country as well as your state and zip code (if applicable), and you’ll be presented with an incredible number of sex partners.

8. SwingerSocial

SwingerSocial says it’s the site “where real swingers come to play!” You could be a veteran swinger or an amateur swinger — SwingerSocial knows how to take care of you.

Screenshot of the SwingerSocial homepage

SwingerSocial has a variety of features to connect you with swingers in your area.

The interface is fresh and simple, no matter if you’re on a laptop, smartphone, or tablet, so you’ll be able to complete your profile and receive local matches in no time.

9. SpicyMatch

Free, fun, and informational, SpicyMatch takes the heat up a notch in the swingers community. Use the interactive map to locate compatible singles and couples (or even a party tonight), post as many photos as you want, share what you want and keep private what you don’t want to share, and feel safe with an exclusive validation system that keeps scammers away. SpicyMatch is truly “built around your lifestyle.”

Best Swinger Couple Sites (#10-12)

Working together as a team is a great way for couples to grow closer and meet their individual goals. Plus, if you’re getting intimate with someone outside of the relationship, you both want to be attracted to him or her, right? Well, we’ve got the sites for you.

10. SDC

Also known as Swingers Date Club, SDC streamlines the online dating experience with its simple registration process, chat rooms, and event directory. A free seven-day trial membership allows you to test everything out first, and if you love the site, we suggest fully committing. Millions of swinger couples are waiting!

11. CouplesLust

CouplesLust focuses on quality, not quantity, and its featured members and comprehensive tools prove it. Check out the homepage or Top 10 page for popular singles and couples, sync up your Facebook profile for quick signup, add personality to your messages with various emoticons, or switch on Invisible Mode if you feel like browsing without other members knowing you’re online.

Screenshot of the CouplesLust homepage

CouplesLust is for swinger couples looking to add a third, fourth, or more to their life or for the night.

We also can’t mention CouplesLust without mentioning its extensive list of swinger-related activities, including things like Sexy Secretary Friday in Houston, Texas, and Trisch and Jerry’s Sunday Afternoon Play Party in Ontario, Canada.

12. Love Voodoo

If you want to be “where the sexy people are,” Love Voodoo is the dating site and social network to turn to. The atmosphere is filled with hot sexual tension, but it’s also supportive and easygoing. For first-timers, you can dip your toes in the water without fear of judgment. For the experts, you can get right to it without any obstacles, including having to give your credit card information.

Best Swinger Sites UK (#13-15)

We get a lot of questions from readers about UK swinger sites, so we’ve gathered our top three picks all in one place. Whether you hail from the streets of London or the highlands of Inverness, you’ll be happy with any of these sites.

13. Swingers UK

With more than 3 million active profiles (and counting), Swingers UK is among the most well-known online swingers dating services for English, Welsh, Scottish, and Irish lads and lassies. The site’s free account comes with the typical features, such as registration and virtual flirts, as well as those that are meant for paying members on other sites, such as a hot-or-not game and video clips. Upgrade your account if you’re interested in premium options, like appearing higher in search results, but we don’t think it’s necessary.

14. SwingingHeaven

Let’s look at SwingingHeaven by the numbers: 1.8 million+ members, 636,000+ member photos, 5,300+ amateur videos, and 317+ video chats. It’s statistics like these that have made the site a leader in the UK swinging space.

Screenshot of the SwingingHeaven homepage

SwingingHeaven is a favorite among UK singles and couples, with over 1 million members.

Don’t just take our word for it, though. Check out the dozens of stories from happy SwingingHeaven members. Note: These are for adult eyes only!

15. SwapScene

SwapScene has a bit of an older look, but its lack of a price tag definitely makes up for it. The site and all of its features are totally free for anyone who joins — you won’t come across any hidden fees. Don’t forget about the Quick Exit button, too, which is at the bottom left-hand corner. This will immediately take you away from the site if someone is about to look over your shoulder and you don’t want them to know what you’re up to.

Your New Partner(s) Are Just a Couple of Clicks Away!

Some of the other big takeaways from the Bellarmine study are that a majority of swingers have more than 14 years of education, and more than 72% are members of some sort of religious institution (vs. 61% of non-swingers). These facts prove that swingers are like anybody else — they just happen to think outside of the traditional box in terms of sexuality and relationships. And so do the sites above!