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Looking for a dating site you can trust? Search no more.
|Hayley Matthews • 12/04/17|
The internet is a great place for reading current events, learning something new, and expanding your horizons. But… the internet is also great for finding anything and everything — no matter how weird or hard to obtain it seems to be.
Want a pastrami sandwich from Pirmanti Bros, but you live in Los Angeles? A gourmet delivery service like Goldbely can have it sent to you as if it had just been made in the restaurant. Want a pair of live Madagascar hissing cockroaches? Order it off Amazon, and you won’t have to pay shipping for it if you have Prime.
Even like-minded people are easy to find online. Looking for a hookup buddy? You have plenty of sites to choose from, including XDating.com, one of the first online dating services dedicated to casual sex. We’ve reviewed all the components of XDating below, and you’ll also see another choice we think you should look into.
XDating.com has been on the online dating scene for a good while now (since 1999), but we wouldn’t say it’s one of the most reliable. There’s not a lot of information on the site, so you’re left with a lot of questions, and you can’t get a feel for the brand or the team behind it. XDating is also very visual, as you might imagine, with sexually explicit photos and videos all over the place.
Registration literally takes a few seconds — just give them your email address, password, and birth date. That’s all it takes to start browsing, but you can fill out more information if you want. You must be at least 18 to join, and we saw members as old as 60+.
The Dating Center is where everything goes down. On the right, you’ll see things like who’s online now, who’s nearby, who’s viewed your profile, who’s liked you, who’s messaged you. On the left, you’ll see suggested matches, which will show up even if you haven’t filled out your profile or specified your preferred gender and other characteristics. The site says they’ll match you as you like people and they like you back, but we’re not sure if that’s really the case — since we did a basic profile and still received matches.
You’re able to find matches on your own with search filters that allow you to sort by gender, location, age, who’s online now, username, and profiles with pictures.
The homepage says you can contact any member (chat and messaging), view their updates, and watch their videos, but what the homepage doesn’t say is you can’t do that with a free account. You’ll have to pay, and then you can do all of that as well as get higher search result placement.
The cost is $29.95 a month for one month or $19.98 a month for three months, which you pay in a lump sum of $59.95. Note: XDating does not have a refund policy, so if you end up canceling your membership, you won’t get that money back no matter the circumstance.
Another helpful feature on XDating is Safe Mode, which is available to everyone. When you switch on Safe Mode, all the nude and semi-nude photos are grayed out, and you can’t access the X-rated videos.
In terms of customer service, XDating does a pretty good job because you have a variety of ways to get in touch. You can use the contact form or email firstname.lastname@example.org. XDating’s phone numbers are (661) 621-9083 and (800) 370-2832 (toll free). If you want to send a letter, mail it to headquarters or one of the branch offices at:
The site insists, as do we, that you don’t send money, checks, money orders, or photos through the mail. They won’t process it, and if it gets lost, you’re out of luck.
A big downside to XDating is its reputation. When you search for the site in Google, you’ll find tons of user complaints as well as numerous articles discussing if it’s a scam or not. Walter R., who left his comment on SiteJabber, is just one of them.
“This so-called dating site is a scammers paradise! I was a non-paying member and got over, yes over, 145 messages in my inbox. Once I became a paying member, I’d got zero, nada, zip, not a single reply to my messages. I warn all who go there: beware! You’re gonna get scammed!” he said.
Yikes. We’ll admit that XDating hasn’t given us much reason to say anything different than what Walter said. Even with our half filled out profile, we instantly received a lot of messages, which seemed to be copy and pasted and generic, just like he did. The XDating app does have four stars for iPhone, but that’s only out of seven reviews — most of which seem fake.
The bottom line is that, yes, XDating is free, offers affordable memberships, and has a lot of cool bells and whistles — but it’s hard to determine if it’s trustworthy and will work for you. Just proceed with caution.
Our experts have been in the dating industry for decades and have seen almost every site you could ever imagine, especially for hookups. BeNaughty is the one we always come back to. Before you come to a conclusion about the sex dating site you want to use, you need to know what’s available.
Here are some quick facts about BeNaughty and why we like it:
Relationships: Hookups, Chats
Match System: Search by interest, zip code, photos, more
Our Experts Say: “BeNaughty is a popular "hookup" site that drops all the pretenses of dating and just gets down to the nitty-gritty of hooking up. The best part: browse profiles in any town for free...” »
Browse Free: View Photos Now
|User Base||Gender Ratio||Popularity (Visits/Mo.)||
|13.3 Million*||Browse Profiles Free|
Some important takeaways from the graph above are that straight and gay singles are welcome to join, the site sees more than 13.3 million visitors a month, and registration, browsing, receiving matches, and flirting are 100% free. Also, your information on BeNaughty will be encrypted with SSL technology (made proof by the lock icon at the front of the URL), and the team reviews every member and every photo and video they post. So you can feel safe while using the site.
You can find practically anything and anyone online, but sometimes you don’t want to. XDating might be one of those things. Of course, it’s up to you to decide, but we’d look elsewhere if we were you. There’s just too much talk out there about the site being sketchy that we can’t ignore, and we don’t want you to waste your time or possibly money.
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