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|Brian Rzepczynski • 9/25/14|
I’m a bisexual man who is more oriented toward men. I have worked through commitment fears of having the same type of relationship my parents had that led me to attract emotionally unavailable men and women because I was unavailable.
Additionally, I recognized internal homophobia in me to the extent that I viewed being partnered with a man as “ewwwww,” though I’m truly desirous of such a relationship.
How do I build faith and trust that I can have the kind of relationship I want to have? How can I maintain that trust and faith during moments of doubt?
The only path to true happiness in love is surrendering to its natural call, whether that be with a man or a woman.
The costs of fighting your preferences, particularly since we don’t choose our sexual orientation, can take a huge toll on your self-esteem and quality of life.
By valuing who you are, surrounding yourself with people who affirm your sexuality and drowning out the judgments of others who don’t understand, you’ll be heading in the right direction.
It is your life to live, after all, and you deserve to be in relationship with whomever feels right to you.
I encourage you to make a list of all the reasons why you deserve to have the relationship you crave so you can refer to this when you have those moments of doubt to counteract them with positive affirmations. You’re worth it!
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