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|Mary Gorham Malia • 9/25/14|
I’ve meet this girl and I have told her I like her. We’re both openly gay and I want to make a move on her. I sort of think she is expecting me to make a move.
You are probably correct. As I travel the country talking to lesbians, I find the majority of lesbians won’t ask another woman out even if they really like her.
It’s really sad to think of the missed chances to find love because women are uncomfortable asking another woman out.
Here’s how to think about it: If you never ask, it’s a no and you’ll wonder for a long time, waste emotional energy and hurt yourself by not taking any action.
If you ask her and she says yes, hurrah!! If you ask her and she says no, you might be hurt and disappointed, but you’ll be able to move on and won’t waste time on something that can’t happen.
Don’t be afraid of the NO! Be afraid of missing a chance for love even more. Oh, and ASK HER OUT!
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