The 411: If you really want to spice things up in the bedroom, there’s no better site to turn to than 3WISHES.com, a premier online retailer that specializes in exclusively-designed, boutique-style lingerie.
Halloween is known as a time to bring out your wild side, but sexy outfits and role playing deserve more than just one day. And 3WISHES.com knows that!
As a leading lingerie retailer for the past 17 years, 3WISHES.com’s goal is to empower women (and men!) to feel sexy and help bring their fantasies to life every day.
Featuring more than 10,000 exclusive, high-end products, the team at 3WISHES.com is there every step of the way, from the concept to the design to the creation to the distribution.
So who better to turn to for sex advice than CEO and founder of 3WISHES.com, Caron Spatola?
Without further ado, here are her top four tips for making your sex life, well, sexier.
1. Use the element of surprise
According to Spatola, surprising your partner is a guaranteed way to always have a good time during sex.
Whether that’s wearing nothing but an apron while cooking dinner for your partner or playing strip games before things go down, be spontaneous and creative.
“Always have that sexy element going on. It can be any kind of element, but surprise them,” she said. “Do it in different places. Anywhere from the mile-high club, which is wonderful to be able to do that, to the laundry room — just be spontaneous.”
2. Plan ahead
Nothing can spoil the mood more than a pile of laundry sitting on the floor next to the bed or a sink full of dirty dishes just inches away from the counter that you’d like to spontaneously have sex on.
“Get your chores done. Get all of your distractions out of the way,” Spatola said. “Prepare yourself and your environment for the evening.”
And the same goes for when you’re planning a romantic getaway!
Do you homework beforehand (book the hotel, make dinner reservations, pack your special toys, etc.), so all you two have to think about is what you want to do to each other.
“Plan a romantic hidden picnic somewhere or a beautiful candlelit dinner with champagne,” she said.
3. Theme it
3WISHES.com specializes in sexy costumes, so they clearly know what’s up when it comes to role playing.
From pirates to cops and robbers to superheroes, the possibilities (or sexibilities?) are endless if you just use your imagination.
“Theme it all the way from costumes to props to decorations around the bedroom, and have fun with it,” she said. “Whether it’s all the way fancy with the best lingerie and diamonds on or a black thong with a T-shirt — whatever it is, just dress up.”
4. Talk dirty
Spatola agrees with the popular Jason Derulo song and says talking dirty is a must if you want to take your sex life to the next level.
Remember that you’re with someone you care about, so don’t feel shy when it comes to describing what you’re wearing, telling them what you’re going to do next or asking them to do stuff to you that you’ve always desired.
“Go wild and let it all go,” she said. “Sex is always passionate and intimate, but it also can be a lot of fun.”
If you can’t get enough of these tips, visit www.3wishes.com.