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About the Expert

John Melfi

John Melfi

Lifestyle Coach

John Melfi is in an open relationship with his wife, Jackie. Together they are the driving force behind some of the most well-known swingers clubs in the world. John and Jackie recently were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report called “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention.” They also coach couples on the lifestyle and frequently blog on the topic.

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3 posts • Last Updated 7/13/15

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“Do you know people my age who are in the swinger lifestyle?”  “Do any couples over 60 come to your club?”  “Will we fit in?” These are the kinds... Read More »

I used to have a really hot neighbor. She was divorced. I remember the first time I saw her. I pulled into my driveway, and there she was talking to... Read More »

Jackie and I don't play at our clubs because we don't think it's a good idea to mix business and pleasure, but we love to travel! When we do, that's... Read More »