Katie B.

I identify as queer and really enjoy being with women. I have been with women sexually and dated a few of them, but I've...(read more)

Consider this a very brief introduction to BDSM, often called kink.
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Who out there likes to watch themselves have sex? (Who doesn't?) Closet mirrors, mirrors on the ceiling, bathroom...(read more)

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You and your partner are ready to dive into some sexual explorations and want to invite another person into your...(read more)

Have you ever wondered, "How do I get a woman to give me a blowjob?"
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Group sex sounds hot, right? If you are one of the many men who have experienced performance anxiety in the bedroom with...(read more)

I have had men ask me before about getting into “the lifestyle,” which to me denotes ethical non-monogamy.
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How does marriage fit with an open relationship? What about having kids? Do I want those things?
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I have written many articles about my positive experiences and perspectives on having an open relationship.
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In Esther Perel’s "Mating in Captivity," she discusses the “shadow of the third."
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Practicing safer sex in an open relationship is much like practicing safer sex in a monogamous one, except you have more...(read more)

Our town is able to support two swingers clubs, and it’s pretty amazing!
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J. and I have had a number of threesomes, both with other men and other women.
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Sometimes group sex experiences are amazing and mind-blowing and way more fun than watching "Batman."
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Two years ago, I was lying on our bed. Our two good friends and partners at the time, Kathryn and Jake, were on the bed...(read more)

Does group sex turn you on? Have you talked to your partner about getting it on with a third (or a fourth)?
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I have learned to understand and manage my (once extreme) jealousy since my partner and I opened up our relationship,...(read more)

Something everyone wants to know about is sex with more than two people, also known as threesomes and moresomes.
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First, you need to make sure you know why you want an open relationship.
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Let’s talk about some pros, cons and motivations of monogamy versus open relationships.
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I use the term “open relationship” interchangeably with “ethical nonmonogamy,” and I use both terms as an...(read more)

My partner J. and I met during our third week of college. I was 18 and he was 17. You don’t choose when you meet...(read more)