How to Handle Tests From Women [Video]

How To Handle Tests From Women
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Marni Kinrys
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If you have ever been or are currently in a relationship with a woman, then you have experienced being “tested.” I put the air quotes around the word tested because, as a woman, I know what you may view as testing is not actually testing.

There are some women who definitely test men, but most women do not test for sport. They don’t sit and think “How can I get my boyfriend/husband to mess up?”What they are actually thinking is “Will he really love me even when I’m like this?” Most testing comes from insecurities, discomfort and fear of loss of love.

As your Wing Girl, my job is to help you succeed by giving you insider information that will help you make the woman in your life happy while still helping you keep attraction alive.

I was watching “Dawson’s Creek” the other day (don’t ask), and I stumbled upon this great scene that perfectly displayed how to handle tests from women. I’ve added my own commentary to the video.

Watch the video and learn exactly what to do, what to say and how to respond when a woman is testing you.

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Marni Kinrys

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Marni is the creator of The Wing Girl Method, a best-selling author and co-host of the "Ask Women" podcast. Marni teaches men how to attract women. She's helped hundreds of thousands of men around the world to be more confident with women so they can make women want them. Now she'll do the same for you! Learn more about Marni and The Wing Girl Method here: winggirlmethod.com.

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