Men's Dating

3 Magic Texts to Make Her Want to See You Tomorrow

David Wygant

Written by: David Wygant

David Wygant

David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit

Edited by: Lillian Castro

Lillian Castro

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I’m curious about something. If you had a winning lottery ticket in your hands, would you give yourself a pat on the back or go cash the sucker?

Unless you’re an idiot, you’d want to cash it.

So why is it when most guys get a woman’s phone number — a free-for-all ticket to fun and sex — they don’t use it?

Not knowing what to say isn’t an excuse. Most dates are confirmed via text, so if you can update Facebook or Twitter about taking a crap, you can send a message to a woman.

The trick is making it worth her while to respond.

If you want to guarantee her interest and a lightning-fast reply, here are a few ideas to get you started:

1. Give her plenty to…


I want to beat my head against the wall every time someone thinks “Hey, wat up ;)” is a viable way to start a conversation.

Really? If you’re that boring, you deserve to get blown off.

Instead of using the same approach as every other guy on the planet, start by arousing her curiosity.

Say you found a place she’d like but don’t mention what it is. Naturally, she’ll want to hear more.

This gives you an easy lead-in to play with her and drop hints to see if she can figure it out.

Whether she “wins” or not, you can offer a reward by treating her to a drink at the spot you chose.


“Whenever you can create a “magical moment,” her

thoughts will start moving toward the bedroom.”

2. Make it all about her. 

Think of the first time you met this woman — did she make you laugh? Was she shy? Mention something about a sex addiction (you wish)?

Women like to feel you noticed THEM, not their boobs/butt/legs/whatever.

The feeling she gets when you talk about her personality is close to how you feel when you think about her smile: It’s a spark.

And while it might not start out sexual, it can quickly move that direction.

Trigger some good vibes by saying you enjoyed talking about her interests…and let her know you want to find out more on a date.

3. Get personal.

Let’s face it: The stereotype is guys are Neanderthals.

Maybe you go around grunting and clubbing small animals with friends, but if you can show your sensitive side to a woman, she’ll be glad you trusted her enough to open up.

Tell her how she makes you feel. If you’ve been out together before, you can even talk about how you felt when she touched you.

Maybe she grabbed your arm, her body brushed against yours and you wanted to push her against the wall right then and there. Let her know…and you’ll probably find out she feels the same.

Women go crazy for romance. Whenever you can create a “magical moment” like those above, you can be sure her thoughts will eventually start moving toward the bedroom.

Which of these tips work best for you?

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