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OK boys, I am talking to you now. You know who you are: young in body or, more importantly, at heart, sexually adventurous, eager to explore the world and interested in doing that in the company of a woman who has more experience in life than you.
To those of us more-experienced-in-life-than-you women who find ourselves happily single and similarly open to adventure, you represent a truly worthwhile encounter, whether it lasts only a few hours or extends into years.
Every time a young man and a woman come together to discover the mysteries of each other, I believe the world becomes a slightly better place.
So in the interest of facilitating more of these lovely unions, I offer my humble advice in three steps.
Approaching a cougar in the wild can indeed be a terrifying proposition. To attempt to meet one in public requires advanced skills and some experience, so let us assume you will be meeting her online.
This is an excellent way to connect with women of all kinds because the initial anonymity leaves us free to take a few risks that might be too embarrassing or time consuming in person.
To begin, you must attempt to understand this powerful creature you are hunting.
What is her nature? What does she value? How might she be different from your other conquests?
A few things you need to know about all experienced women:
So you must begin by appreciating the poised, beautiful and wise creature you aim to tame if you want to win her affections. Then you need to understand what it is you offer her.
Here are some things that make young men magnificent suitors for more experienced women. (Do you notice how I keep using the word “experienced” instead of “older”? Take note, boys.)
You are looking for someone who will appreciate your joy for life and be enlivened by your youthful exuberance and mischievousness. This has implications for how to track this creature.
What are the signs you will want to look for when you scan the field of potential conquests online?
There is no such thing as a cougar. Everyone is an individual and every individual connection is unique.
From my own experience, I never sought a connection with a man over a decade younger than me until one specific such man pursued and won me over.
While you might like the idea of being the plaything to a woman of the world, she will not cotton to being treated as a type.
Proceed first and foremost to explore and understand the one special and rare woman before you and you are more than halfway there.
The next step in capturing a cougar: laying the trap. I’ll give you specific tips for making first contact next week.
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