Meet Girls Online in 4 Easy Ways (For Hookups, Dates & Love)

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Meet Girls Online in 4 Easy Ways (For Hookups, Dates & Love)

David Wygant
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Guys, today’s dating world is set up for your success. With so many sites, apps, and social media networks to choose from, meeting girls online is easier than ever — whether you’re looking for a date, hookup, relationship, or even marriage.

You can search for women based on your dating standards and start flirtatious conversations from the comfort of home.

Here are the 4 best ways to do that:

1. Online Dating Sites

The Pew Research Center says more than 40 million people use online dating sites. If you’re single and don’t have a dating profile somewhere, you’re missing out on the simplest and fastest way to meet a lot of attractive and interesting women.

We’ve tested a ton of dating sites, so we know which ones are worth your time. Our favorites include Match, which is designed to facilitate long-term love, and BeNaughty, which is designed to facilitate short-term romance.

And here are our top overall picks with in-depth reviews of each:


Relationships: Friends, Dates, and Relationships

Match System: Browse by zip, age, appearance, more

Our Experts Say: “Match has facilitated the most dates and relationships of any dating site, and its large audience and high success rate make it our top review...” Full Review »

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Relationships: Serious Relationships

Match System: Search, Receive Partner Suggestions

Our Experts Say: “EliteSingles is a leading dating site just for busy, single professionals. More than 80% of members have earned a college degree, and most are looking for a serious commitment...” Full Review »

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Relationships: Casual Dates, Deep Relationships

Match System: Personality test suggests matches

Our Experts Say: “Accounting for 2% of U.S. marriages, eharmony's compatibility-based system and commitment-minded user base are ideal for those seeking a serious relationship...” Full Review »

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Relationships: Fun Dates, Serious Relationships

Match System: Search and get match recommendations

Our Experts Say: “Zoosk is integrated with social media sites, like Facebook and Google+, so it's very popular with singles on the go...” Full Review »

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With Match’s comprehensive free trial, vast user base, and high success rate, it’s the go-to dating site all around — no matter what type of relationship you want. Of our other choices, Zoosk is great for casual dating, , eharmony is great for serious, long-term commitments, and BeNaughty is great for hookups — so you’re sure to find exactly what you’re looking for.

2. Dating Apps

Dating apps offer a great way to meet local women. Dating apps have become extremely popular because they’re fun and easy — not to mention you can date from anywhere. We’re big fans of these popular dating apps:

  • Tinder: the go-to dating app if you want to hook up.
  • Hinge: for meeting like-minded people through friends of friends on Facebook.
  • Bumble: puts women in charge by only allowing them to make the first contact.

There are even dating apps based on religion — JDate for Jewish people, ChristianMingle for Christians, etc. As you can see, there really is something for everyone online.


Meetups put groups of people together based on their mutual interests, and there are a lot of different groups based on a lot of different activities: cooking, hiking, painting, music, bowling, you name it. Pick the activity you like, and you’re going to meet like-minded people.

Photo of events is a great place to find people online and attend fun events with them in person.

Sign up for, search for events in your area, and attend as many as you can. The key is to just get out there. Not only will you be able to interact with different types of people, but you’ll also get to expand your horizons, learn a new skill, or find a new hobby.

4. Social Media

Facebook is by far the best social media site for meeting women online because it’s easy to break the ice. All you have to do is read a girl’s posts and then comment underneath. Once she replies, you can start talking on Facebook Messenger. And since you’re a friend of a friend, she can feel safe around you from the start.

Thanks to the new Facebook Dating feature, you can expand your reach and find online crushes in a snap.

Instagram can also give you access to attractive women in a more casual setting. You often get to see girls out partying, on vacation, or just hanging out with friends. Leave a comment on a photo or something she posted and try to go back and forth a little bit. Once she’s gotten comfortable with you, suggest that you move on to private messaging and even texting.

Meeting Women Online Doesn’t Have to be a Chore

Thanks to modern technology, meeting single women isn’t as hard as it once was. You can meet girls online by using the resources we’ve listed here. Now that we’ve told you where to find them, all you have to do is get out there. Your next hookup, date, or relationship could be right around the corner. Good luck!