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Meet Girls Online in 4 Easy Ways (For Hookups, Dates & Love)

David Wygant
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Guys, today’s modern dating world is set up for your success. With so many sites, apps, and social media networks to choose from, meeting girls online is easier than ever — whether you’re looking for a date, hookup, relationship, or even marriage.

Here are the 4 best ways to do that:

1. Online Dating Sites

The Pew Research Center says more than 40 million people use online dating sites. If you’re single and not on one, you’re missing out on the simplest and fastest way to not just meet girls but meet a lot of girls.

We’ve tested a ton of dating sites, so we know which ones are worth your time. Our favorites include Match, Zoosk, eHarmony, and BeNaughty.

With Match’s comprehensive free trial, vast user base, and high success rate, it’s the go-to dating site all around — no matter what type of relationship you want. Of our other choices, Zoosk is great for casual dating, eHarmony is great for serious, long-term commitments, and BeNaughty is great for hookups — so you’re sure to find exactly what you’re looking for.

And here are our top overall picks with in-depth reviews of each:


2. Dating Apps

While dating apps aren’t strictly online, they’re still a great way to meet women. Dating apps have become extremely popular because they’re fun and easy — not to mention you can date from anywhere. We’re big fans of these:

  • Tinder: the go-to dating app if you want to hook up.
  • Hinge: for meeting like-minded people through friends of friends on Facebook.
  • Bumble: puts women in charge by only allowing them to make the first contact.

There are even ones based on religion — JDate for Jewish people, ChristianMingle for Christians, etc. As you can see, there really is something for everyone online.


Meetups put groups of people together based on their mutual interests, and there are a lot of different groups based on a lot of different activities: cooking, hiking, painting, music, bowling, you name it. Pick the activity you like and you’re going to meet like-minded people. is a great place to find people online and attend fun events with them in person.

Sign up for, search for events in your area, and attend as many as you can. The key is to just get out there. Not only will you be able to interact with different types of people, but you’ll also get to expand your horizons, learn a new skill, or find a new hobby.

4. Social Media

Facebook is by far the best social media site for meeting women online because it’s easy to break the ice. All you have to do is read a girl’s posts and then comment underneath. Once she replies, you can start talking on Facebook Messenger. And since you’re a friend of a friend, she can feel safe around you from the start.

Instagram is also choice, but it’s a more casual setting. You often get to see girls out partying, on vacation, or just hanging out with friends. Leave a comment on a photo or something she posted and try to go back and forth a little bit. Once she’s gotten comfortable with you, suggest that you move on to private messaging and even texting.

Final Thoughts

Meeting girls online doesn’t have to be hard or intimidating. Now that we’ve told you where to find them, all you have to do is get out there. Your next hookup, date, or relationship could be right around the corner.

About The Author

David Wygant is an internationally-renowned dating and relationship coach, author and speaker. To find out more about David and all of his dating and relationship-building products, visit Connect with David on Google+.