My 6 Favorite Threesome Sex Positions

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My 6 Favorite Threesome Sex Positions

Katie B. Katie B.
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So you found a couple threesome partners on your free trial at BeNaughty, and now you’re wondering how the logistics of this is going to work. Well you’re in the right place. Our favorite “open relationship” blogger, Katie B, will take you through the setup of all the best positions so you can learn to three-way like a pro.

People who’ve never been in a threesome before will naturally have questions about it.

How do you actually have a threesome? I mean, I get you put three fun and sexually adventurous people together, but what are the mechanics of it? How do you fit three people together? What are the best threesome positions?

We don’t see threesomes in mainstream media, so unless you watch porn, you may feel a little stumped or even duped. You may have questions like: Do people actually do that? Does it really feel good?

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Threesome position ideas and possibilities are somewhat dependent on the orientations, sexual comfort, and fluidity of the people involved.

A threesome with a female and two straight males will look different than a threesome with a female and two males who are comfortable being sexual with each other.

Similarly, a threesome with a male and two straight females will likely look different than a threesome with a male and two females who are comfortable being sexual with each other.

Threesome positions also can depend on who wants to be sexual with whom. Don’t assume you know how things will shake out, either — because the orientations of the individuals involved isn’t always so clear-cut.

That being said, here are some of MY favorite experiences and positions for threesomes written from my perspective of being female bodied, queer, and partnered to a straight guy (depicted by some of our favorite characters).

FFM Threesome Positions

From Magical Os to Daisy Chains, here are the 4 best positions for two girls and a guy having a threesome.

1. Magical O

Have one girl lay on her back and the other lay on top of her. They get to make out, play with each other, and touch each other’s bodies! Then you enter the girl on top in doggy style.

This was the position I was in when I experienced a simultaneous three-way orgasm, so I guess it was pretty amazing. I highly recommend it! This also is one of my partner’s favorites.

Magical O

2. MFF

Have one female go down on the other, and then you can give it to her doggy style. Then switch with your lady — you get to both receive oral and watch a great show!

MFF

3. Good Old-Fashioned Daisy Chain

This is a hot position if you like giving and receiving oral sex. It may take some doing to get everyone in the right spot, but be patient and you’ll be rewarded.

Good Old-Fashioned Daisy Chain

4. Double Oral

This is when the two ladies go down on you together. This not only gives you double the pleasure, but the ladies get to make out, too. Switch it up and go down on one girl with the other. Make sure the one receiving lays back and get twice the pleasure!

Double Oral

MFM Threesome Positions

From Spit Roasts to DVP, here are the 2 best positions for two guys and a girl.

1. Spit Roast

Have one guy lay back and have the girl go down on him. Now you can pound away doggy style. The thrusting will aid her in giving a stellar blowjob, and the guy receiving the blowjob gets a great view of some sexy action.

Spit Roast

This is my all-time favorite MFM position, and my partner’s favorite MFM position as well. Many MFM positions are variations on this one – the woman can give a blow job to one of the guys and receive either a cock, dildo, or handjob from the other. You also can use a hand to give a handjob.

2. DVP

Double-vaginal penetration works if everyone is very comfortable being very close, if the female is well-lubricated and stretched out and if you are comfortable with whatever safe sex conversations you have had and tools you are using.

If you are turned on and comfortable, and there have been explicit conversations about safe sex and comfort levels, then this position is not to be missed.

DVP

For me, DVP always feels awesome, and there’s something about having two cocks in my pussy that just turns me on even more.

Try Not to Overthink Threesome Positions

There are only so many places to put hands, genitals, and mouths during a threesome. If someone has a free hand or tongue, get in where you want to and where your partners want stimulation. Remember to listen to your partners — and just have fun!

You can find more extensive threesome position ideas (Vicki Vantoch’s “The Threesome Handbook” is one such place), but often you will find they are all pretty intuitive. Enjoy!

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