She Has a Friend Who Spends Nights. Am I Being Jealous?

Dr. Wendy Walsh
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Reader Question:
The lady I am dating has a friend who spends nights and holidays with her. She says his religion (Jewish) won’t allow him to marry outside of his religion.
Am I being jealous, or should I be more concerned?
-Larry (Arkansas)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Answer:

Larry: Yes and yes. How can you win this woman’s heart with other male pheromones in the house? This man may not marry her because of his religion, but that doesn’t mean he isn’t sleeping with her. Tell her he’s out or no more dates.

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