Dr Margot Brown A Practical Guide For Those In Disconnected Marriages

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Couples Therapist Dr. Margot Brown is a Practical Guide for Individuals in Disconnected or Volatile Marriages

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The Short Version: When a marriage is in crisis, couples don’t always know where to turn for help. The issues between them may be so personal and private, they may not want to sit down in person for a traditional therapy session. That’s why Dr. Margot Brown, a long-time resident and couples therapist in San Francisco, has written a thorough self-help guide for couples who are reluctant to book an appointment but do want advice from a professional. “Kickstart Your Relationship Now!” offers concrete exercises based on proven psychological principles to help couples re-evaluate their relationships and improve their communication skills. Dr. Margot has worked with singles and couples at all stages of life and knows how to give direction in a compassionate tone. Anyone experiencing a rough patch in their relationship can use Margot’s resources and services to foster growth and understanding.

Dr. Margot Ellen Brown grew her therapy practice primarily through word of mouth. She didn’t plan on it being her full-time job — in the beginning it was just something she did on the side — but she eventually realized that counseling others gave her a sense of joy and fulfillment.

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Dr. Margot Brown is a results-driven couples therapist and author in San Francisco.

She opened her private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area and saw immediate success. Her advice resonated with her clients, and she soon had to book appointments at least two months in advance because her calendar was completely full. Couples in particular took to her straightforward approach to therapy. She has been building her reputation as a straightforward relationship expert ever since.

Dr. Margot’s belief has been that people deserve to  get the answers they seek so they can move on with their lives, hopefully applying the life skills they’ve learned through therapy or self-help resources to their relationships. A short-term approach makes both the client and therapist accountable to make consistent progress to the desired outcome.

In other words, when the client or couple is feeling better and thinking more clearly by practicing effective coping skills, this can lead to a healthier approach to problem solving for themselves as individuals which carries over into their relationship.

This therapist prides herself on being results-oriented, and she has written a number of insightful advice articles as well as a comprehensive self-help book geared toward couples in all sorts of difficulties.

“I am very much direct, concrete, and solution-focused,” Margot told us. “I am no-nonsense and also draw upon evidence-based studies in psychology, which have proven to be best practices in helping clients overcome depression, anxiety, and other issues.”

Her First Book Provides DIY Exercises & Helpful Insights

Published just before Valentine’s Day in 2015, “Kickstart Your Relationship Now!: Move On or Move Out” is a self-help book full of step-by-step exercises for couples wondering if they should break up or stay together. The book tackles many difficult subjects and breaks down what couples need to know to move forward.

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“Kickstart Your Relationship Now!” teaches couples clear and positive communication skills.

The purpose of Dr. Margot’s book is to get results and facilitate breakthroughs for couples of all ages and backgrounds. She does this by recommending specific actions for dealing with life’s toughest issues, including codependency, childrearing, unfaithfulness, grief, addiction, and domestic violence. Her insights give couples the knowledge they need to discuss complex and painful problems on their own.

“There are heaps of wisdom and practical suggestions in this comprehensive book on relationships,” said Leonard S. in an Amazon review.  “I loved the diagrams. They gave me wonderful visuals for key concepts.”

Another reviewer said Dr. Margot’s no-nonsense approach was useful, and it was refreshing to read a self-help book that gets straight to the point. “The book speaks to the heart of the issues in the relationship that I’m trying to work on,” the reviewer wrote.

“Kickstart Your Relationship Now” is a fantastic resource for couples who want to improve their communication skills, handle conflict more effectively, and build trust and intimacy in the relationship. The book encourages readers to practice forgiveness and recognize the value in a healthy partnership. Thanks to Margot’s straightforward advice, readers can decide if it’s worth doing the work and sticking things out — or if it’s time to move on.

Sharing Free Information About Healthy Conflict Resolution

Dr. Margot has spent years running her own private therapy practice, working long nights talking to clients about their personal issues, and she has gained a lot of insight from hearing so many stories, experiences, and concerns. Now she seeks to share her professional knowledge and answer common questions that come up in dating and relationships.

The blog section of her website is a treasure trove of information for anyone experiencing a relationship crisis. Dr. Margot discusses problems both big and small in an effort to keep people informed and prepared as they build partnerships and start families. This free resource is invaluable for someone who needs a quick solution to a personal issue. It’s like talking to a therapist — without having to actually go to therapy.

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Dr. Margot’s blog addresses everyday relationship issues, including how much fighting is too much.

Whether the reader is worried that they married a sociopath or are dealing with the fallout of a divorce, Dr. Margot offers compassionate and reliable guidance with specific recommendations for what to do and how to recover.

Dr. Margot also frequently contributes articles to YourTango, giving her advice on everything from healthy communication skills to how racism impacts dating. Her thoughtful and straight-to-the-point articles give readers plenty to ponder as they navigate love, dating, and relationships.

How Changing Perspectives Can Change Your Relationship

Throughout her career, Dr. Margot has heard positive feedback from all corners. She sees it as her calling to help others, and that’s what she aims to do in every article, book, and therapy session. She isn’t a passive therapist, and her approach often yields fast results. Oftentimes her clients walk away with their heads spinning with lessons and renewed hope.

Dr. Margot told us that one woman bought her book to read herself, but her husband wanted to read it first. When he finished it 10 days later, he told his wife it was really good and suggested reading it out loud together. They read it every night, one page at a time, and the couple said it helped their marriage by reminding them of the simple things they can do to communicate and show love.

“We just learned more in one hour with you than we learned in four months with the other therapist.” — A couple in Dr. Margot’s office

“Dr. Brown’s book is really insightful and offers very practical advice about getting a relationship back on track,” said Archana, adding that reading the book was like talking to a kind and knowledgeable friend. “Not only is it easy to read, but it is also easy to apply.”

Ultimately, Dr. Margot can only show people a path toward health, happiness, and fulfillment, and it falls to the couples to choose to take it. As Leonard said in his review of Dr. Margot’s book, “The bottom line — it’s up to each of us to learn how to make our relationships better. This book gives us the tools!”

Margot Takes a Holistic Approach to Counseling

Dr. Margot has made a name for herself as a proactive therapist with straightforward advice for singles and couples everywhere. Her counseling style isn’t to say vague platitudes and ask general questions — she’s more of a hard-hitter interested in truly getting to know what makes her clients tick. Whether you’re sitting down with her for a private therapy session or curled up with her self-help book, you’ll get a healthy dose of truth to help you understand what’s going on in your relationship.

In the coming months, Dr. Margot has her sights set on a new frontier: YouTube. She is working on creating a series of short videos that will share instrumental coping strategies and tactics that can help married couples deal with stress on a daily basis.

“It took me a long time in life to realize that I wanted to help others,” she said. “It fills my heart and soul to give, to share, and to help offer resolution and solutions to those who are struggling and suffering within themselves and within their relationships.”