1 Year In and Lost


1 Year In and Lost

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    January 19, 2015 at 3:22 am #71227
    1 Year In and Lost

    I dated a girl back in high school (~3 yrs ago), after graduation she left to do out of the country modelling (Singapore). After two weeks of her missing the Skype dates she would set and not returning the few texts I sent, she told me she couldn’t do the long distance thing. Two weeks later she had a new boyfriend where they were together 5 months until she returned home.
    I met my current girlfriend in my program at uni, and have been dating for just over a yr (2 yrs after my ex). She is beautiful, caring, and very supportive (although we get into small spats). Anyways, there hasn’t been a day that has gone by, in 3 yrs, where I haven’t thought about my ex. I thought time would pass and I’d heal but I still dream about us together and waking from those dreams truly ruins my day. I keep comparing the relationship I had with my ex to my current one. As bad as it ended the relationship was fantastic and I TRULY loved her, but don’t feel the same for my current girlfriend.