3rd date rule


3rd date rule

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    April 14, 2015 at 11:17 pm #77268
    3rd date rule

    First date, we met for drinks and one quick kiss goodbye.

    Second date, dinner and drinks…he asked me to come over to his place after we left the bar and I declined.

    Third date, I went over to the guy’s house for a movie, and we started making out on his couch (typical). I stopped for a minute and told him “I want to go slow”, and then he kinda stared at me and said “Is that it?”.
    He said “Am I moving too fast” and I said “No, I’m enjoying getting to know you” and he replied “I am too. If I’m moving too fast just let me know..”
    And then everything was pleasant afterward, we continued making out, and he wanted to make plans for another date at the end of the night.

    But I haven’t heard from him for a week now. I’m kinda bummed. Did I freak him out by saying I want to go slow? Was he just hoping to hook up?


    April 16, 2015 at 8:39 am #77331

    I think he just wanted to hook up.

    It’s also possible that he thinks you’re not really into him. At this point, you might try making the next move and contact him.