4th Date Blues


4th Date Blues

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    May 6, 2018 at 12:24 pm #172315
    4th Date Blues

    I went on a 4th date with with a girl I really like.
    I waited till the end of the night to kind of get a feel for where this is heading.
    She just said she’s just meeting people, and getting to know them.
    Well… I didn’t really want to hear that.
    Then I ask her if she wanted to keep this going? And she said. Well??? What is “this”?
    I said well, we’re hanging out… so she said yes, she thinks we should. We have a good time, and get along well.
    She also mentioned if people don’t want to wait for her, that’s ok. She has other things to do.

    The whole thing just kind of came off cold.

    She ask if I had a problem with this. I said no… but I kind of did.
    In my head I thought this was going somewhere…

    Should I keep dating this person and see where it goes? If she even conciders this dating?

    May 7, 2018 at 9:28 pm #172473

    I have been in this situation. I was the” cool girl” that just went with” lets see where it goes.” Spent 3 months always questioning the relationship. He called himself my boyfriend. In the end- he took a job out of state. Didn’t even have the courtesy to tell me. Just left. If you don’t feel important to them – move one. Never make someone your priority while letting you be their option. Hope this helps. You deserve better

    May 10, 2018 at 1:39 am #172727

    I did speak with her again, and she just said ahe doesn’t want to rush things. She’s been in that situation before and doesn’t want to be in that situation again.
    Well, that’s fine…We’ll take out time… but how is this what she’s telling the other guys she’s “meeting” too?

    Kind of baffled by this whole thing. It’s only been a month and it’s already confusing.