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clueless101ParticipantNovember 29, 2019 at 9:33 pm #225830
So, I went away and met a guy. We really hit it off and ended up sleeping with each other that night. I assumed it would just be a one night stand kind of thing. I requested him on Facebook and he accepted immediately, then that day he followed me on Instagram and I followed him back. The following day he messaged me on Facebook and we continued to message for days. Whenever he replied late or something like that he would always apologise and say how sorry he was. We met up again and had a beautiful night together and slept with each other again. We continued talking for days after, then I said when am I seeing you again, he said he was very keen to see me again and we organised to catch up that Sunday. I couldn’t make it because I had a family do but he didn’t check to see if I was coming again so I didnt worry about it. We continued talking and he would call me darling and tell me how sweet I was. Everything was going very well. Then all of a sudden he didnt open any of my messages.
dashingscorpioParticipantDecember 2, 2019 at 4:07 pm #225988
Very few guys at 21 are looking to “settle down”.
If someone is really “into you” it doesn’t matter if you have sex right away or not as long as it’s “great sex”.
Having sex with you isn’t why he lost interest. He wants to play the field.
The mistake a lot of people make is acting as if they’re in a (relationship) when they’re in a “situationship”.
This is why being “ghosted” affects them so much. They put all of their eggs into one basket.
Since you posted this under the category of “Online Dating” I assume you met this guy online or in social media.
Odds are he still has an active profile which means he’s still (keeping his options open) by dating other people!
Just as you should be doing. After all you’re not a “couple” or even close to being in a relationship.
I suspect when he hits a slow period he’ll try to hookup with you again. Move on, if you want more.
Most guys in their early 20s just want to play video games, party with friends, watch sports, and get laid!
KballerParticipantDecember 6, 2019 at 6:57 am #226236
you forgot “and smoke weed while avoiding finding a job, and simultaneously living on their parents couch, in the basement”.
saraloParticipantDecember 22, 2019 at 3:50 pm #226928
Whatever it is I’m sure it has nothing to do with you. Easy for me to say I know – but try not to take it personally. And know no matter what you did or didn’t do it likely wouldn’t have made a different outcome.
Perhaps he’ll come around – but i’d proceed carefully. He may be testing your boundaries, seeing how much poor treatment you’ll take. Just as a predator knocks its prey before eating it, predators test boundaries. Meaning -once he knows he can ignore/mistreat you and you’ll come back for more, the more it will likely happen. Not just with him, but others too. Just set healthy boundaries and you’ll be good. 🙂
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