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AmeliaPond1ParticipantJuly 23, 2016 at 12:14 am #106301
There’s this guy in my class who I think might like me.We’re in our late twenties.For a few months now,I’ve seen him staring at me a lot.When we work in labs he always finds excuses to talk,be near me or touch my hand while exchanging things.He’s very helpful & polite at all times. Although he has many female friends,& is relaxed with them,other people & professors,when it comes to me he sometimes completely ignores me,gets nervous or blushes when he sees me.Sometimes he comes up to say hi and tries to talk.I added him on Facebook & so far have started the conversation thrice.Every time,he responds within seconds,minutes tops,seems eager to talk,& gives long replies.But he hasn’t initiated a conversation yet.When we last met,I didn’t say hi at first b/c I didn’t see him coming in,&he was grumpy through out class.When I said hi at the end of class,his face lit up & we ended up chatting a while.His mood improved after that.
So does he like me? Is he shy? Or am I totally wrong here?
Frankie0305ParticipantJuly 23, 2016 at 2:20 am #106302
I think you should ask him out to coffee or lunch. Take the first step with no expectations, pull him from that environment so maybe he will feel a little bit more relaxed and than go from there. You can probably tell a lot by his mannerism, and just general body language when you see him for coffee or lunch. I think that will be less threatening, just friendly, and you can go from there.
gradstudent91ParticipantJuly 24, 2016 at 6:02 pm #106366
From this description – mood changes, nervousness, blushing – it seems like he’s definitely interested. It sounds like he has a crush on you; I agree that if you are also interested it might be a good idea to ask him to coffee/lunch or something low-key.
penguin623ParticipantJuly 24, 2016 at 10:03 pm #106370
It sounds like he may be a little shy around you because he likes you. Just be really friendly towards him and try your best to make him feel comfortable. I agree that if you’re interested in him it would be a great idea to ask him to grab some coffee or a light lunch sometime with you! Hope that helps!
ginandtonicParticipantJuly 26, 2016 at 8:56 am #106495
Ask him to hang out outside of class and you will know whether he is interested.
amcook5ParticipantJuly 28, 2016 at 1:59 am #106779
As a shy male, it sounds like he is clearly a shy male who is interested in you
earsParticipantJuly 30, 2016 at 2:03 am #106967
AmeliaPond1ParticipantAugust 3, 2016 at 12:32 am #107299
Thanks so much for all your opinions,they really encouraged me.. The trouble is he never initiates conversation. Yet every time I text him we end up talking for hours.. It gets really confusing some times. Besides I am equally shy so I’m totally clueless how should I approach him…
redlipsParticipantAugust 5, 2016 at 8:43 am #107588
I can bet that he likes you very much. He won’t reject your offer to having lunch or teatime with you. Voice out your offer if you are equally interested in him and everything will just set in place by itself.
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